My family and my bisexuality

[Nimoa]

I live in a very traditional country in Africa it is so hard to come out from when I was 8 years old up to today (16 yrs old) I have been crushing over men and women but I have been dating only boys but for like the past 2 months I was crushing hard over this girl and I think she likes me too sadly we can't be with each other or at least tell each other there is no nobody to talk to.can you help me with some advice 

[Monsoon]

Hello @Nimoa

Welcome to our community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to those who reach out to us.

Thank you for telling me about your sexuality. I just want you to know that we are here for you and you can talk to us about anything. Can I ask, how are you feeling about all of this? I can imagine that it must be pretty hard on you, but you're doing a great thing by opening up about your experiences. I hope to hear back from you soon. Take care. 

[Nimoa]

I know I can't come out but I feel so happy to finally know who I am. But I can't deny the fact things are really hard for me nobody to talk, can you help me?

[Monsoon]

Hello @Nimoa

I am glad that you feel happy about finally knowing who you are. It's so comforting when we have a good sense of our identity, and it can help to ground us and make us feel more secure and safe during a really difficult time. But yeah, I completely get how it's hard for you. We can give you support, and I can continue this through the confidential support channel which we are already doing.