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So I think I like girls, and I often think abt kissing them and I’m pretty sure that I’m bi.  I’ve only ever gone out with guys, and I’m kinda worried that I’ll go out with a girl, and then realise that I’m actually heterosexual. I guess I just don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but I’m not sure how I can really know for sure since I’ve never been with another girl and none of my friends want to experiment or anything. Idk what to do pls help. 
 

 

(btw I’m a girl)

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Heyyy,

Welcome to our community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice and support to people who come to us :)

I get what you mean by being worried about hurting anyone's feelings, but I guess that you could be upfront from the start and say that you're experimenting and it could end up being that you actually figure out that you're heterosexual. What do you reckon? 

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Yeah, it probably will be the same in real life. However, sometimes, it can be different. You might think you'll like something, but when you try it, not so much. That's why it's important to experiment. What do you think? Also, no need to apologise :). These things are confusing!

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Thanks. I’m feeling a bit more confident now and I really appreciate ur advice :) . Most of my friends are generally pretty ok with lgbt stuff so I could probably come out casually and it wouldn’t be a bit deal, which might be good. 
 

thanks 

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I just came across this and thought of something you could try

you could choose a friend of someone you feel comfortable with and ask to go on a sort of 'trial date '.

it's quite hard to put into words but it would basically be going somewhere with a girl and imagining it's a date to see if you enjoy the idea of being with someone the same sex as you.

it took me a really long time to type this as my autocorrect is so annoying and kept changing the word date to cat...

Max

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