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im a 15 year old boy and i found out I was gay when I was 13. I always just thought that these feelings would pass but lately I’ve come to accept who I really am. Unfortunately, I have a crush on one of my best friends who is a boy and idk what to do because I really want to tell him how I feel about him but I don’t want to ruin things between us. He has given me hints that he is gay but they could also be considered regular things best friends do. Whenever ther people ask him if he is gay he either gets really offended or he just laughs it off. What should I do???

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Hey there [uSER=17516]Conner Rhodes[/uSER]

Welcome to the community!

It's so awesome that you are accepting yourself for who you are and we're so happy for you!

Liking someone when we don't know if they like us back can be a really confusing time - especially when you are trying to figure out their sexuality on top of that.

We have to remember that even if your friend is gay there could be a chance that there isn't a romance there, we can't choose who we fall for. It is his choice as and when he wants to come out if he is so don't rush him or put pressure on him. It's hard because you don't want things to get in the way of your friendship.

Think about how much you like your friend and whether the risk is worth it that this could change your friendship as it is.


I hope that helps,



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