I cant tell if im pan to females or just lesbian

[catlady0101]

so everytime I try dateing it end up with guys those end fast as it doesnt feel right and i perfer girls but I dont know if im pan or lesbian i really like girls but I love them mostly for the personality

[Remi]

Hi @catlady0101

 

It's very natural to like people for their personality - however, it is helpful in relationships to also have sexual attraction, do you feel you have a sexual attraction to girls.

 

Being pansexual means that you can have an attraction to a variety of genders, in the sense that you fall for the person rather than the gender. If you have had an attraction to men before and it hasn't gone well that doesn't necessarily mean you aren't still attractive to men.

 

I wouldn't worry too much about putting a firm label on it, just experiment and have fun.

 

-Remi

[catlady0101]

well i do feel more sexually attracted to women

[IHATEME1478]

There is a possibility for both, i would chart the feelings you have around males and females and analyse it

[Remi]

Hey @catlady0101

 

That's awesome that you feel more sexually attracted to females. Do you feel confident exploring that?

 

Remi

[catlady0101]

i have it feel better then when with an guy

[catlady0101]

i have it feel better then when with an guy

in dateing wise i mean lol abit to young

[Remi]

Hey @catlady0101

 

That's okay it's a good idea to wait until you are ready. And remember there is absolutely no rush.

 

-Remi

Edited March 22, 2019 by Remi

[IHATEME1478]

Hi @catlady0101 I know what you mean with the being a bit young to date thing, i'm in highschool but i still think i should wait a bit to start dating.

 

Yours truly,

 

@IHATEME1478 (a.k.a. A super flirty girl)