Koomadori Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 Hello! I found this site today and thought I would give it a whirl. First up, I was born and am still biologically female, but I am confused if that is what I actually am in my mind; am I fluid, non-binery or something else? Iunno. Also, I tend to tell people I'm gay (umbrellering when I feel lazy), bi (for those who only know the most basic terms), or pan (for those who know more terms) but in truth, I don't have a clue, all I know is that "straight" is ruled out. I'm honestly just a confused human and I'm for the most part kinda "meh" about figuring anything out because as long as I am happy then I don't care about labelling or working at trying to find my comfortable warddrobe. At the same time, though... I feel maybe some clarity will help my fuzzy brain at this moment in time. Any thoughts? Mine are a mess, so I apologise about this mini article about me. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unthoughtthought Posted March 10, 2019 Share Posted March 10, 2019 Hey its fine though I dont know either what am I atractet at. I am a male so first I tried with a woman but it didnt work out. So I tried it with a nice guy but again I felt nothing but empty that didnt felt right either. So I dont know what I am and what I am attractet at. I cant help you with your decision because I got a similar problem but I hope you will find out soon what your sexual prefference is. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukikitten Posted March 10, 2019 Share Posted March 10, 2019 Everything you just wrote is how I feel. I don’t know what to say when people ask me questions about my gender or preference. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted March 11, 2019 Share Posted March 11, 2019 Hey @Koomadori , Big welcome to our community What makes you feel like you might be fluid or non-binary? I always think there is no right or wrong way to be a woman and naturally there is a fluidity between genders as it is a spectrum anyway. I find pansexual a really good way of describing my own sexuality because it does leave a lot of room for variety - you could always say to people who may not know what it is - Hey, I'm pansexual and that means that I am attracted to people regardless of their gender. A label is just a guideline so adapt it to how you feel in that moment. I can't provide you with much clarity as it's what you feel inside but I think to try not to overthink it too much and the answers will come to you. -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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