QuestioningQuoz Posted March 1, 2019 Share Posted March 1, 2019 (edited) Female/21 I've only ever had boyfriends, but they've always pursued me and if I'm honest I had to kind of "force" myself to have feelings for them. My first boyfriend was the only guy I ever fancied when I was 13/14, and someone I met a couple of years ago is the only guy I've ever been in love with (now I'm starting to think it was more like infatuation considering it was like a young adult insta-love type thing). However, lately, I've only ever been thinking about women, have actually dreamt about having sex with them, and found myself daydreaming about doing things with them. I danced with a woman last weekend and became quite attracted to how to came across (sadly she's engaged). I've never had a girlfriend before, but I have made out with one before. I really wouldn't know how to find someone as one girl, that I know of, has only ever told me that she liked me. When I go to college, I'm looking at girls and sometimes the men, but I can never imagine myself being with a man anymore. I feel like the constant male attention I've been getting has stopped me considering if I'm actually anything other. I considered myself as bi-curious at first, then bi, and then pansexual and I have stuck with that ever since. However I am strongly sexually attracted to women and their personalities. Edited March 1, 2019 by QuestioningQuoz Added what I (used) to consider myself MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted March 1, 2019 Share Posted March 1, 2019 Hey there QuestioningQuoz, Welcome to community. You've raised some really interesting points here. It is perfectly natural to be questioning your sexuality - I definitely started questioning when I was at college age. From what you've said it sounds like you are sexually attracted to women and you feel quite confident in that - would you say that was right? I wouldn't rush to put labels on it unless you would like to, it's whatever makes you feel more comfortable. Could you go on a dating app for women wanting to meet women? This will be the beginning of a lovely journey for you, i'm sure. -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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