Jessy Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 i don’t know if I’ll chaneg my mind later and also I’m scared to come out MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 Hey Jessy, Welcome to community. Thanks for sharing this here, it's a really common worry. So coming out, it can be such an amazing experience, but it also can be quite scary. Firstly what are your reasons for wanting to come out? There is no rush to do it if you don't feel ready yet but it can definitely be comforting for friends and loved ones to understand something really important about you. If you do decide that you'd like to come out. Who would you like to come out to? We could practice what you would like to say here first to try it out. How does that sound? -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessy Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 Hi, I feel like I keep almost mentioning im bi because I’ve accepted it fully I think so I want to come out but I’m just nervous I think my friends will be the first to know and I think they will be fine with it but still a tad nerve racking MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 Hey Jessy, It is nerve wracking you are right. I felt the same way when I came out so what you are feeling is completely normal! What would you say to your friends, would you do it in person or over messages? -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessy Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 I’m thinking of doing it in person just so I have a bit more control of the situation I’m going to tell my group of closet friends first and I’ll probably say I hope this doesn’t change anything in our friendship and I hope you can respect me I like boys and girls do you think that’s ok ? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 Wow, that's actually such a perfect plan already I don't have anything to add. Good luck! Do you know when you would like to do it? MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da_Fluid_Unicorn17 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Hey Jessy, and welcome! Your plan sounds great to me. It is normal to be nervous, this is an important event for you. I am Bisexual as well, and coming out (for me, at least) was easier than I thought. Often times our anxieties/insecurities make us worry more than we should about things. That being said, again it is normal to be nervous. I would recommend waiting until you are comfortable, or at least not afraid or in actual danger to come out. If you decide to come out, it would be good to come out to close friends first because they may be more understanding and compassionate. I hope it all turns out, you've got this! -Da_Fluid_Unicorn17 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted March 11, 2019 Share Posted March 11, 2019 Very well put @Da_Fluid_Unicorn17 ! It is very important to make sure you are in a safe situation to come out and this should always be taken seriously. Thanks for being an awesome ally and community member! MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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