Jesram Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 i am 20yrs and completed tertiary last year... i broke up with my guy last year July and ever since we broke up he has been begging to come back.... so one day i decided to pay him a surprise visit and upon getting there i met him in bed with the same lady he introduced to me as his sister..i was so broken i couldn't even hold back my tears..instead of him to apologise or something he rather shouted and insulted me and asked me to leave his house....after some weeks he came back begging again and i still love him.... now i found someone who claims he loves me but i am scared he will also turn out the same way.. now i am confused because its like i like this new guy but the distance between us is my problem MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted February 13, 2019 Share Posted February 13, 2019 Hi Jesram, Cheating and heartbreak are awful and it sounds like you have had a difficult last year. Make sure you keep yourself safe if you do decide to get back into contact with your ex. But remember he did lie to you and that you said he shouted at you and insulted you. With the new relationship, you are bound to be worried that the same thing might happen but not everyone is the same, has he ever given you a reason to believe he might be like this? What is the distance between you? -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesram Posted February 14, 2019 Author Share Posted February 14, 2019 With the new guy, he has never given me a reason to believe he will turn out like that.....and about the distance, we are in different regions MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted February 14, 2019 Share Posted February 14, 2019 Hey Jesram, That's a good sign, i'd say just go into in slowly if you can. Sometimes long distance is good as it means you get to keep a lot more of your independence and don't rush things as much. -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesram Posted February 17, 2019 Author Share Posted February 17, 2019 OK........Thanks Remi MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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