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do they deserve forgiveness


elizabeth (Bluey)    

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  1. 1. should I forgive these boys for bullying me?



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On 10/2/2024 at 12:24 PM, Lennie said:

Hi @elizabeth (Bluey) -- yes, it must be difficult to get an apology and then this person act in a similarly hurtful way again afterwards. You mention that often this teasing they do happens when they are in a group, I suspect that in this case, they may be doing this as a way to show off to others in the group. Do you get this impression, or do you think it's something else?

I can justify that being a reason but I don't understand how that's funny

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54 minutes ago, elizabeth (Bluey) said:

I can justify that being a reason but I don't understand how that's funny

No, it's certainly not excusing this behaviour. I was offering a possible suggestion for why they might be behaving this way. 

I agree, it's not funny to tease someone if they are visibly getting upset and communicating this to you. In this respect, it sounds as though you are different and more mature than the rest of that group. 

It's also a reason why having some time and space away from them may be good for you

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29 minutes ago, Lennie said:

No, it's certainly not excusing this behaviour. I was offering a possible suggestion for why they might be behaving this way. 

I agree, it's not funny to tease someone if they are visibly getting upset and communicating this to you. In this respect, it sounds as though you are different and more mature than the rest of that group. 

It's also a reason why having some time and space away from them may be good for you

I had a LONG, respectfull conversaiton with them, I think its safe to say they get the point I have been trying to make. I will however, provide you with an update.

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13 minutes ago, elizabeth (Bluey) said:

I had a LONG, respectfull conversaiton with them, I think its safe to say they get the point I have been trying to make. I will however, provide you with an update.

Hi @elizabeth (Bluey) -- well that sounds positive. But yes, give us an update whenever you're ready 🙂

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