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In love with my homophobic Bsf


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Ok so me and G have been bsf for a while now and I recently figured out that I had a crush on him.

The problem is he is homophobic so i cant truly be myself around himΒ 

But also its just a middle school romance so whats the big deal? But also he keeps sending me mixed signals on if he likes me of not so Idk if I should even bother with it!

But heres a list Ig..

Should

1. he is so sweet

2.He seems to understand me and how I feel

3.He seems to like me back

4.He is one of my bsf so I know him very well

5.WE LITTERLY COOK TOGETHER CONSTANTLY LIKE ITS SO OULXIUGLIH

Should not

1. He is homophobic

2. He is my bsf

HELP

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19 hours ago, AshtonBeach said:

Ok so me and G have been bsf for a while now and I recently figured out that I had a crush on him.

The problem is he is homophobic so i cant truly be myself around himΒ 

But also its just a middle school romance so whats the big deal? But also he keeps sending me mixed signals on if he likes me of not so Idk if I should even bother with it!

But heres a list Ig..

Should

1. he is so sweet

2.He seems to understand me and how I feel

3.He seems to like me back

4.He is one of my bsf so I know him very well

5.WE LITTERLY COOK TOGETHER CONSTANTLY LIKE ITS SO OULXIUGLIH

Should not

1. He is homophobic

2. He is my bsf

HELP

Hi @AshtonBeach

I can see why you're feeling conflicted and why you are asking for help.Β 

Can I ask, when you say that he is homophobic - what do you mean by that? Has he said things to you and if so, how do you deal with that? I would imagine that must make being bsf with him quite difficult. Is that right?Β 

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1 hour ago, Aurora said:

Hi @AshtonBeach

I can see why you're feeling conflicted and why you are asking for help.Β 

Can I ask, when you say that he is homophobic - what do you mean by that? Has he said things to you and if so, how do you deal with that? I would imagine that must make being bsf with him quite difficult. Is that right?Β 

No he just dosent like "the gays" so im str8 around him from now on

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19 hours ago, AshtonBeach said:

No he just dosent like "the gays" so im str8 around him from now on

I hope you don't mind me asking this but how close would you say you are if you can't be your true self around them? I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this.Β 

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3 hours ago, Aurora said:

I hope you don't mind me asking this but how close would you say you are if you can't be your true self around them? I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this.Β 

we are pretty close for the most part! we actualluy just started dating so he thinks im just bi and attracted more to men

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