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Wish my own boyfriend was proud of me.. :(

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Wish my own boyfriend was proud of me.. :(

I'm so sorry that he's not supportive of your fantastic progress Megs, you deserve all the cheers and support and its upsetting that he is not recognising how amazing this achievement is.

But don't feel down because he isn't proud, because all of us at DTL are, and you should be super proud of yourself too! Maybe one day he will be more supportive

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Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well youโ€™re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesnโ€™t it.

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Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well youโ€™re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesnโ€™t it.

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1 minute ago, Megs- said:

Bloody twat came home, im feeling crap he comes home and I was joking, then says im not in the mood.. well youโ€™re in the mood to fucking chest on me? Ok that makes perfect fucking sense doesnโ€™t it.

Megs I am so sorry to hear this, you deserve so much better and the fact that he has cheated on you proves that maybe it might be time to move away from him. He clearly doesn't realise how lucky he is to have a wonderful girl like you in his life and I hope you find someone who does appreciate you โค๏ธ sending you a big warm hug ๐Ÿซ‚ย  hope your situation improves and always remember to go where you are appreciated!ย 

Here for u if you need to vent โค๏ธ

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Oh thank you.. it doesnโ€™t matter if I say anything Iโ€™ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and Iโ€™d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue ๐Ÿ˜•, I can never fucking do anything RITHT!

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13 hours ago, Megs- said:

Oh thank you.. it doesnโ€™t matter if I say anything Iโ€™ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and Iโ€™d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue ๐Ÿ˜•, I can never fucking do anything RITHT!

Hi @Megs-,

I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talkย โค๏ธ

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26 minutes ago, Duckie said:

Hi @Megs-,

I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talkย โค๏ธ

Thank you so much, sorry was at dentist. Will message on CS

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31 minutes ago, Duckie said:

Hi @Megs-,

I'm really sorry to hear all this. I mean here you are making great progress and I hate the fact that he is raining on your parade. You get upset because he is doing upsetting things and yet he finds a way to blame your diagnosis for it, which is ableist at best and gaslighting at worst. Because you're entitled to your feelings and he is in no position to judge you. I'm here if you want to talkย โค๏ธ

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47 minutes ago, Megs- said:

Thank you so much, sorry was at dentist. Will message on CS

No worries at all. Hope all went well at the dentistย ๐Ÿ˜Š

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On 4/23/2024 at 7:56 PM, Megs- said:

Oh thank you.. it doesnโ€™t matter if I say anything Iโ€™ll be yelled at and to made to feel rubbish about myself. And everything will be my fault, oh and Iโ€™d be overreacting too.. oh and my diagnosis will be brought into it too the nastiness about me having bpd will definitely be judged by him.. oh yeah I am so done. Maybe I am the issue ๐Ÿ˜•, I can never fucking do anything RITHT!

I am sorry you went through this, I just caught up with everything. That sounds really hurtful.ย 

I am super proud of you doing so well with your SH journey, and @jazzy.skyย really did put a thoughtful message. Sometimes in life the support and validation might come from other sources that are not our partners and that is okay.ย 

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lol I cba with this

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1 hour ago, Megs- said:

lol I cba with this

Hey Megs,ย  what's going on? Here if u need a person to listen โค๏ธ

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1 hour ago, jazzy.sky said:

Hey Megs,ย  what's going on? Here if u need a person to listen โค๏ธ

Thanks.ย 

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5 hours ago, Megs- said:

lol I cba with this

Are you OK?ย โค๏ธย I'm around this eve if you want to talk.

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Are you OK?ย โค๏ธย I'm around this eve if you want to talk.

Duckie๐Ÿ˜ญ

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1 minute ago, Megs- said:

Duckie๐Ÿ˜ญ

I'm here sweetheartย โค๏ธย 

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Just now, Duckie said:

I'm here sweetheartย โค๏ธย 

Will message on cs ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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36 minutes ago, Megs- said:

Will message on cs ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Thank youย โค๏ธย I don't ever want you or anyone else to suffer in silence.

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16 hours ago, Duckie said:

Thank youย โค๏ธย I don't ever want you or anyone else to suffer in silence.

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Almost 2 months.. holy fucking shit!

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7 minutes ago, Megs- said:

Almost 2 months.. holy fucking shit!

I can't believe itย ๐Ÿคฉย What an amazing achievement! When will it be 2 months?

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40 minutes ago, Duckie said:

I can't believe itย ๐Ÿคฉย What an amazing achievement! When will it be 2 months?

4th may!ย 

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1 minute ago, Megs- said:

4th may!ย 

May the fourth be with you!ย ๐Ÿคฉ

(Star Wars meme)

Honestly though, that is so cool! Can you remember the last time you went for a full two months?

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