mia_ Posted May 14, 2023 Share Posted May 14, 2023 (edited) This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. So basically my friends had started v@ping and they asked me if I wanted to try it and it was really tempting so I said yes. I only tried it two to three times but I don’t wanna do it anymore because it has not affect on me at all (I mean by getting buzz3d) oh and also maybe because a guy in my year found out and messaged me “yo, was kinda surprised to find out you v@pe”. I’m so fucking worried because he has videos of my friends vaping (not me), and he and his friends have already told the teachers at my school that some other girls have been vaping (the school hasn’t been able to do anything because the photos and videos weren’t at school) My mum also works as a teacher at my school so I’m worried they would fire her. I’m not in any videos or photos, I made sure of that but I’m still so scared. I feel like such a shit person and I’m only 13. Im so sorry. Edited May 14, 2023 by mia_ Grammar MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone44 Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. 3 hours ago, mia_ said: So basically my friends had started v@ping and they asked me if I wanted to try it and it was really tempting so I said yes. I only tried it two to three times but I don’t wanna do it anymore because it has not affect on me at all (I mean by getting buzz3d) oh and also maybe because a guy in my year found out and messaged me “yo, was kinda surprised to find out you v@pe”. I’m so fucking worried because he has videos of my friends vaping (not me), and he and his friends have already told the teachers at my school that some other girls have been vaping (the school hasn’t been able to do anything because the photos and videos weren’t at school) My mum also works as a teacher at my school so I’m worried they would fire her. I’m not in any videos or photos, I made sure of that but I’m still so scared. I feel like such a shit person and I’m only 13. Im so sorry. ok, may I ask you a few questions? Im also 13 and we have had a few incidents at my school, many involving people in my grade/ my friends and I would love to help you get through this to ensure you have/maintain a healthy reputation MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mia_ Posted May 15, 2023 Author Share Posted May 15, 2023 Sure I’m fine with anything, the guy did reply back and did say I would be fine because there’s no evidence and I didn’t do it on school premises. I’m less worried ig but I’m scared people will start calling me a v@per even tho I only tried it a couple times. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone44 Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 2 hours ago, mia_ said: Sure I’m fine with anything, the guy did reply back and did say I would be fine because there’s no evidence and I didn’t do it on school premises. I’m less worried ig but I’m scared people will start calling me a v@per even tho I only tried it a couple times. would you ever go to certain lengths to get a vape pen? How long have you known those people? Its good that there is no photographic evidence, the guy seems really nice as well MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catsup Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. 23 hours ago, mia_ said: So basically my friends had started v@ping and they asked me if I wanted to try it and it was really tempting so I said yes. I only tried it two to three times but I don’t wanna do it anymore because it has not affect on me at all (I mean by getting buzz3d) oh and also maybe because a guy in my year found out and messaged me “yo, was kinda surprised to find out you v@pe”. I’m so fucking worried because he has videos of my friends vaping (not me), and he and his friends have already told the teachers at my school that some other girls have been vaping (the school hasn’t been able to do anything because the photos and videos weren’t at school) My mum also works as a teacher at my school so I’m worried they would fire her. I’m not in any videos or photos, I made sure of that but I’m still so scared. I feel like such a shit person and I’m only 13. Im so sorry. Hi, I'm Catsup, one of the support mentors here. It sounds like you have a lot of stress on your shoulders. Sometimes when things like this happen, we very naturally imagine worst case scenarios. You said you're worried that the school might fire your mom because you vaped. I personally think that that would be a very extreme reaction from the school and doesn't seem likely. I think it's great that you knew vaping wasn't helpful for you and quit. It doesn't make you a bad person at all. What are some good things you're doing in life right now? You seem to be being pretty hard on yourself, but I think you're doing something really helpful right now by seeking support. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mia_ Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 On 5/15/2023 at 8:48 PM, Persephone44 said: would you ever go to certain lengths to get a vape pen? How long have you known those people? Its good that there is no photographic evidence, the guy seems really nice as well No I would not at all, I don’t ever want to try one again. I’ve known them for around 4 years and one of them I really trust. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mia_ Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. On 5/16/2023 at 7:48 AM, Catsup said: Hi, I'm Catsup, one of the support mentors here. It sounds like you have a lot of stress on your shoulders. Sometimes when things like this happen, we very naturally imagine worst case scenarios. You said you're worried that the school might fire your mom because you vaped. I personally think that that would be a very extreme reaction from the school and doesn't seem likely. I think it's great that you knew vaping wasn't helpful for you and quit. It doesn't make you a bad person at all. What are some good things you're doing in life right now? You seem to be being pretty hard on yourself, but I think you're doing something really helpful right now by seeking support. The good things I’m trying to do in life would probably be trying to be nice to almost everyone (treat someone how you want to be treated), and I always help my friends with homework ig. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone44 Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 3 hours ago, mia_ said: No I would not at all, I don’t ever want to try one again. I’ve known them for around 4 years and one of them I really trust. ok, so my advice would to just maybe not hang out with them while they are vaping o you don't get a interesting reputation :) 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mia_ Posted May 20, 2023 Author Share Posted May 20, 2023 On 5/18/2023 at 8:21 PM, Persephone44 said: ok, so my advice would to just maybe not hang out with them while they are vaping o you don't get a interesting reputation :) Thank you so much! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone44 Posted May 20, 2023 Share Posted May 20, 2023 3 minutes ago, mia_ said: Thank you so much! yea, is there anything else?? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mia_ Posted May 20, 2023 Author Share Posted May 20, 2023 9 minutes ago, Persephone44 said: yea, is there anything else?? No I’d not think so, have a great day/night 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayla Posted May 20, 2023 Share Posted May 20, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. On 5/14/2023 at 6:40 PM, mia_ said: So basically my friends had started v@ping and they asked me if I wanted to try it and it was really tempting so I said yes. I only tried it two to three times but I don’t wanna do it anymore because it has not affect on me at all (I mean by getting buzz3d) oh and also maybe because a guy in my year found out and messaged me “yo, was kinda surprised to find out you v@pe”. I’m so fucking worried because he has videos of my friends vaping (not me), and he and his friends have already told the teachers at my school that some other girls have been vaping (the school hasn’t been able to do anything because the photos and videos weren’t at school) My mum also works as a teacher at my school so I’m worried they would fire her. I’m not in any videos or photos, I made sure of that but I’m still so scared. I feel like such a shit person and I’m only 13. Im so sorry. i know thats hard to deal with and i hope nothing happens to either of you or your friends but i väpe too and i understand the not affecting you part i only do that when im at school bc i mostly smoke wêëd MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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