Olivia05 Posted May 8 Share Posted May 8 (edited) So basically I was liked this guy and it seemed like he liked me too until he said he liked someone else. Ok not that big of a deal but then today one of my friends said this morning he was saying how I said I hated him which I don’t and then I was talking to him about it but he said he didn’t say anything and then after school I was walking wi my other friend to the buses and she said that that wasn’t what she heard and what she heard was that the guy (we’ll call him T) was going around to school saying that he was dating me and my other friend when in reality neither of those are true. Edited May 8 by Olivia05 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 9 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 9 13 hours ago, Olivia05 said: So basically I was liked this guy and it seemed like he liked me too until he said he liked someone else. Ok not that big of a deal but then today one of my friends said this morning he was saying how I said I hated him which I don’t and then I was talking to him about it but he said he didn’t say anything and then after school I was walking wi my other friend to the buses and she said that that wasn’t what she heard and what she heard was that the guy (we’ll call him T) was going around to school saying that he was dating me and my other friend when in reality neither of those are true. Thanks for the update on what's been going on with T. It sounds like you've been hearing lots of different stuff and you don't quite know what's going on. Is that right? I'm wondering whether T might be a bit confused about his feelings himself. What do you think? Do you think it would help if you talked to him again? Maybe you could tell him that you've been hearing all these different things and you just want to know where these rumours are coming from. Do you mind me asking, if you still like him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 9 Author Share Posted May 9 1 hour ago, Aurora said: Thanks for the update on what's been going on with T. It sounds like you've been hearing lots of different stuff and you don't quite know what's going on. Is that right? I'm wondering whether T might be a bit confused about his feelings himself. What do you think? Do you think it would help if you talked to him again? Maybe you could tell him that you've been hearing all these different things and you just want to know where these rumours are coming from. Do you mind me asking, if you still like him? As far as I heard from him he’s got his feelings set out and he’s not confused at all…and as far as talking to him, I’m talking to him today so we can try and straighten this out and everyone not be so confused Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 9 Author Share Posted May 9 And no I don’t like him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 10 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 10 23 hours ago, Olivia05 said: As far as I heard from him he’s got his feelings set out and he’s not confused at all…and as far as talking to him, I’m talking to him today so we can try and straighten this out and everyone not be so confused Thanks for clarifying. I hope you got to speak to him and you've managed to straighten things out. We're here if you need us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 10 Author Share Posted May 10 15 minutes ago, Aurora said: Thanks for clarifying. I hope you got to speak to him and you've managed to straighten things out. We're here if you need us. Yeah about that…we had an argument and now we’re not talking to each other at all mostly because he’s self-centered and things the world evolves around him when in theory it does so if that’s one of the reason y we stopped talking…there’s more but I can’t think of anything rn… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 10 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 10 12 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Yeah about that…we had an argument and now we’re not talking to each other at all mostly because he’s self-centered and things the world evolves around him when in theory it does so if that’s one of the reason y we stopped talking…there’s more but I can’t think of anything rn… Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! How are you feeling about it all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 10 Author Share Posted May 10 26 minutes ago, Aurora said: Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! How are you feeling about it all? Really a mixture of emotions really sometimes I’m sad bc a friendship that I had is no more but then I did hear my friends saying how he was spreading rumors abt me and if I think abt that part I’m glad we’re no longer friends…it’s just a mixture of emotions that most of them I can’t explain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 10 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 10 16 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Really a mixture of emotions really sometimes I’m sad bc a friendship that I had is no more but then I did hear my friends saying how he was spreading rumors abt me and if I think abt that part I’m glad we’re no longer friends…it’s just a mixture of emotions that most of them I can’t explain I totally get that. If you can, be kind to yourself and give yourself some space and time to process all your feelings. Losing a friendship is difficult and it's good that you're acknowledging all these feelings. It sounds like you're looking after yourself by not being friends with him anymore, after how he's been treating you. We're here for you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 10 Author Share Posted May 10 Ok so I showed my guy bff the ss of mine and T’s convo and he said that it looks like I started everything and now I’m overthinking if it’s true or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 19 hours ago, Olivia05 said: Ok so I showed my guy bff the ss of mine and T’s convo and he said that it looks like I started everything and now I’m overthinking if it’s true or not alright, i did not follow all of this (sorry) but it sounds like a lot of ~rumors~ which sucks. I know they can get pretty bad and rampagent, are you doing ok with it? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 11 Author Share Posted May 11 3 minutes ago, Equivalent Ways said: alright, i did not follow all of this (sorry) but it sounds like a lot of ~rumors~ which sucks. I know they can get pretty bad and rampagent, are you doing ok with it? Well today was senior day where all the seniors get their awards (not graduate just awards) and he was sitting right beside my friends and they told me to sit wi them and then I was just eyeing him and then he just got up and moved away and kinda avoided me for the rest of the time but then I started talking to my friend (one that I wasn’t sitting wi) and she was saying that he kept on talking abt me the entire time (idk abt what just that he was talking abt me) but yeah other than that good ig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 41 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Well today was senior day where all the seniors get their awards (not graduate just awards) and he was sitting right beside my friends and they told me to sit wi them and then I was just eyeing him and then he just got up and moved away and kinda avoided me for the rest of the time but then I started talking to my friend (one that I wasn’t sitting wi) and she was saying that he kept on talking abt me the entire time (idk abt what just that he was talking abt me) but yeah other than that good ig haha yo that dude is so dramatic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 11 Author Share Posted May 11 37 minutes ago, Equivalent Ways said: haha yo that dude is so dramatic Yep…if only I could show u the ss of mine and his convo I totally would but nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 2 hours ago, Olivia05 said: Yep…if only I could show u the ss of mine and his convo I totally would but nope donno what ss is but i think i feel ya. Welp, idk but I like to think i can see things clearly and cut through drama(thats my goal anyway) so I can try to help still! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 11 Author Share Posted May 11 1 minute ago, Equivalent Ways said: donno what ss is but i think i feel ya. Welp, idk but I like to think i can see things clearly and cut through drama(thats my goal anyway) so I can try to help still! Screenshots its fine I’m kinda done wi him anyway bc I’m more focused on my bf (his nickname is cantaloupe) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 7 minutes ago, Olivia05 said: Screenshots its fine I’m kinda done wi him anyway bc I’m more focused on my bf (his nickname is cantaloupe) ooooooooooh alright alright 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 12 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 12 11 hours ago, Olivia05 said: Screenshots its fine I’m kinda done wi him anyway bc I’m more focused on my bf (his nickname is cantaloupe) I'm glad to hear that!! When did you get together with your bf? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 12 Author Share Posted May 12 30 minutes ago, Aurora said: I'm glad to hear that!! When did you get together with your bf? Last night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 12 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 12 1 minute ago, Olivia05 said: Last night Amazing - I'm so happy for you . How are you feeling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 12 Author Share Posted May 12 2 minutes ago, Aurora said: Amazing - I'm so happy for you . How are you feeling? At the moment? Tired bc I just woke up but other than that happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 12 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 12 1 minute ago, Olivia05 said: At the moment? Tired bc I just woke up but other than that happy Haha, I know that feeling!! I'm really happy for you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 12 Author Share Posted May 12 4 minutes ago, Aurora said: Haha, I know that feeling!! I'm really happy for you Thank you so much! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Equivalent Ways Posted May 12 Share Posted May 12 5 hours ago, Olivia05 said: At the moment? Tired bc I just woke up but other than that happy Bruh, like a hour ago I just woke up but yeah good for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted May 12 Author Share Posted May 12 5 minutes ago, Equivalent Ways said: Bruh, like a hour ago I just woke up but yeah good for you Lol I wish but I’m at school rn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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