TheCoasterNerd! Posted May 2, 2023 Share Posted May 2, 2023 I am a 14 year old male who likes both males and females romantically and as friends but only like girls' bodies. Reddit (r/teenagers) says that I am biromantic and heterosexual. What do you guys think and how do I come out to friends and my dad? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted May 2, 2023 Share Posted May 2, 2023 2 hours ago, TheCoasterNerd! said: I am a 14 year old male who likes both males and females romantically and as friends but only like girls' bodies. Reddit (r/teenagers) says that I am biromantic and heterosexual. What do you guys think and how do I come out to friends and my dad? You could very likely be biromantic and heterosexual- That matches what you're talking about. When it comes to coming out, I'd make sure that it's safe first. Test the water. Then you can tell them, weather through a letter or a sit-down conversation. You are going to end up in a sit-down conversation, so I'd recommend doing a bit of research and being prepared to answer questions they may have. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74730 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCoasterNerd! Posted May 3, 2023 Author Share Posted May 3, 2023 5 hours ago, SCARE said: You could very likely be biromantic and heterosexual- That matches what you're talking about. When it comes to coming out, I'd make sure that it's safe first. Test the water. Then you can tell them, weather through a letter or a sit-down conversation. You are going to end up in a sit-down conversation, so I'd recommend doing a bit of research and being prepared to answer questions they may have. Thanks, that makes sense. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74766 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted May 3, 2023 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 3, 2023 17 hours ago, TheCoasterNerd! said: I am a 14 year old male who likes both males and females romantically and as friends but only like girls' bodies. Reddit (r/teenagers) says that I am biromantic and heterosexual. What do you guys think and how do I come out to friends and my dad? Hi there, I noticed that you are new here and I just wanted to say a huge big welcome to Ditch the Label. It's lovely to have you here!! I'm Aurora and I am one of the support mentors here. I give support and advice to those who reach out to us. If you ever want to talk about anything confidentially, you can send us a message via the confidential support tab at the top of this page. I can see that @SCARE has already given some great advice. How are you feeling about everything now? Is there anything you would like a bit more support with? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74784 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCoasterNerd! Posted May 3, 2023 Author Share Posted May 3, 2023 4 hours ago, Aurora said: Hi there, I noticed that you are new here and I just wanted to say a huge big welcome to Ditch the Label. It's lovely to have you here!! I'm Aurora and I am one of the support mentors here. I give support and advice to those who reach out to us. If you ever want to talk about anything confidentially, you can send us a message via the confidential support tab at the top of this page. I can see that @SCARE has already given some great advice. How are you feeling about everything now? Is there anything you would like a bit more support with? I think I'm ok, but I still am unsure of this. Does this make me bi, queer, what am I? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74794 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted May 3, 2023 Share Posted May 3, 2023 3 minutes ago, TheCoasterNerd! said: I think I'm ok, but I still am unsure of this. Does this make me bi, queer, what am I? It doesn't necessarily make you anything, but you could use either label- it depends on what label you prefer MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74799 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCoasterNerd! Posted May 3, 2023 Author Share Posted May 3, 2023 13 minutes ago, SCARE said: It doesn't necessarily make you anything, but you could use either label- it depends on what label you prefer Alright I guess that makes sense. I've posted this question here, Quora, and Reddit and I'm getting mixed responses from each. I think I trust this site most though. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74803 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted May 3, 2023 Share Posted May 3, 2023 2 hours ago, TheCoasterNerd! said: Alright I guess that makes sense. I've posted this question here, Quora, and Reddit and I'm getting mixed responses from each. I think I trust this site most though. Yeah, there's a lot of people who will gatekeep labels, too. We don't really do that. If you feel like there's a label that fits your experiences, then that's likely the one your going to be the most happy with MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/6652-ok-well-i-think-im-bi-but-i-dont-know-i-need-advice/#findComment-74832 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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