_Kai_ Posted March 30 Share Posted March 30 (edited) Yooo, so I'm back with another update in the life as a transmale in a homophobic/transphobic household. My parents haven't accepted the fact of my whole new identity yet & my siblings who I thought supported me have been referring to me with my deadname & past pronouns (She/Her), I thought telling them that if they can't get used to brother & he/him, that they could just use sibling & they/them since I'm comfortable with those as well. But the confusing thing is that they refer to me (To their friends & other people) as a male/guy/boy, its just weird they notice that I'm a dude but won't use all the preferred stuff. At this point I honestly don't even think they're trying to support me, I correct them (Alot-) when they use the deadname & past pronouns but then they say "Okay" or "Be quiet", after I correct them (Several times) they just continue right with the sentence with all that stuff as if I didn't even speak. With my parents I don't think they'll ever come around to the whole community, I have asked my mom that in a couple months (My birthday) if I'm able to get a haircut from an actual professional since the last time I did it it came out too short & uneven a bit, she ofc said "No" & "You just cHoPpEd off all ur hair a few months ago" (Tho keep in mind when I cut it, it came out to right above my ears, plus its down to my shoulders now, I also cut it in November so its been sometime for it to grow out). I've been wearing more guy clothes & passing as a male in public more even tho it irritates the sh!t outta my parents lmao. My online friends are VERY supportive of me, which is nice to have all them in my life (I've known em for about a year now). Oh I might also try to get a job at Mcdonalds or a movie theater at the mall near me since I researched & saw they hire people even at 14, so I'm hoping that in September when I'm in high school they'll let me go to a public school because my sister could drop me off at Mcdonalds with her since she also is gonna work there. That's all for the update for now (Also ik I switch subjects very easily but my mind wonders) :' ) Edited March 31 by _Kai_ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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