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just got cheated on :(


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I was dating O, and everything was good for like 2 years. When they came out to me as poly I was okay with it but didn't want to date another person too unexpectedly. Everything was fine for a few months until I found out that they were dating someone else too. I was angry bc O didn't tell me and their new boyfriend calls me homophobic and a bitchboy because I don't feel comfortable. Welp, just found out that because of O I had Stockholm syndrome, ED, and was suicidal. I don't know what to do..Both still go to my school and bully me. Any advice?ย 

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6/8 of my friends have already blocked me calling me a harlot because I'm dating someone now. Their terrorizing my boyfriend too. :(

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Donโ€™t listen to any negativity people say about you because you are a nice person who deserves the worldย 

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22 hours ago, urfavsewerrat said:

I was dating O, and everything was good for like 2 years. When they came out to me as poly I was okay with it but didn't want to date another person too unexpectedly. Everything was fine for a few months until I found out that they were dating someone else too. I was angry bc O didn't tell me and their new boyfriend calls me homophobic and a bitchboy because I don't feel comfortable. Welp, just found out that because of O I had Stockholm syndrome, ED, and was suicidal. I don't know what to do..Both still go to my school and bully me. Any advice?ย 

Heyy @urfavsewerrat, I am Luie, one of the support mentors with Ditch the Label. I am truly sorry to hear that you were cheated on by your long time boyfriend of two years. Homophobic and bitchboy are so harsh and untrue about you, really sucks how you'd had to hear those.ย 

I have read everything that you've mentioned, and I'll unpack it all with you one at a time. Firstly though, you mentioned being suicidal and I want to check in whether this is how you've been feeling currently or in the past? You safety and well being is our number one concern so please do let me know (Btw, if you've prefer speaking more one to one then you could also send across a confidential support request in the top bar next to blogs).ย 

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OMG! Im so sorry! If i could give u a hug rn, I would give you the biggest one ever! But remeber one thing: Keep your head up because there are more fish in the sea awaiting for you.

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He doesn't deserve you! You are better than him and it's his loss. You seem like an amazing person, don't let him get to you!

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