Hello, How do I say this?

[LIFEISHARD]

Hi, again, I am new here. I´m Lesbian and don´t know how to tell my christian family & friends that I like girls and not guys. Im having a difficult time coming out to them and would prefer not to bring up the topic, but I know eventually they find out and Im worried about how they're going to react. I dont know if they are homosexual or if they would support me. What should I do???

[LIFEISHARD]

Edit: I meant homophobia

[Catsup]

On 2/16/2023 at 2:20 AM, LIFEISHARD said:

Hi, again, I am new here. I´m Lesbian and don´t know how to tell my christian family & friends that I like girls and not guys. Im having a difficult time coming out to them and would prefer not to bring up the topic, but I know eventually they find out and Im worried about how they're going to react. I dont know if they are homosexual or if they would support me. What should I do???

Hi, I'm Catsup, one of the support mentors here.  Thanks for sharing here and welcome to the Ditch the Label community!   I noticed you posted looking for some advice on coming out.  I want to let you know that you do not have to come out if you do not feel ready, and that your decision can be based on who you feel ready to talk to about it.

Have you come out to anyone else already?  Sometimes it can feel less intimidating to choose just one person to come out to who you feel you can trust.  You say you are worried about people finding out..  How likely do you think that they would find that out right now?

[LIFEISHARD]

Thank you, this is bunch of help.

[-Leila-]

Hey welcome to the community 

Edited February 20, 2023 by _Leila_