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I was online and, I’m ashamed to say this, I have had a porn addiction for a couple of years. Lately porn wasn’t as exciting anymore but then I met someone on Omegle that said they’d go nude if I gave them pics. I sent 4 pics. 1 of my face, 1 of my face+dick, 1 of just my dick and one of half my face and my dick. Then he sent me something but i noticed that for 1 picture they had a tattoo and another they didn’t and I found out they just sent me random pics from the internet. Then they told me they’d leak my pics if I didn’t pay 5€ before 22:00 but I didn’t trust them so I went to my parents who contacted the police but I still want some extra help. We have his bank information and possibly name. But I’m 14 and just can’t deal with the fact that my crush might see it and I’ll never have a shot again. I already got so far with my crush and now it might all go to waste. Please help by giving advice.

PS: I’m 14

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hi! so first off i wanna say you’re not shameful at ALL for your addiction. a porn addiction can be very harmful to one’s perception of sex and things like that, however that doesn’t make YOU shameful. second, it’s totally valid to feel everything right now — worries about your crush, the police, etc. what i will say is that while i completely understand having your crush seeing it feels like a very big deal (and it is, if it bothers you!), it may also be helpful to rationalize some of your thoughts as well :) this is not meant in any way to minimize your feelings and say they aren’t real, because they are; what it is is helping rationalize some of these anxious thoughts you may be having. firstly, it may help to think through the scenario. what’s the worst thing that could happen if your crush sees them? of course you’re likely to be embarrassed, maybe they won’t like you back. but the point of this is no matter what happens the feelings that come out of it WILL pass. it may completely suck in the moment to have this potential relationship ruined, however that feeling will ease with time! you’re only 14 (again, not minimizing your feelings in any way! if this feels like a big deal to you then it IS a big deal! but it’s also okay to recognize that this feeling may be less of a stressor in, say, a few months or a year from now), and there will always always be other people out there if this one doesn’t work out :) regardless, no matter what happens just know you have a support system, whether it be your parents, friends, or people on here, rooting for you! if something happens with said crush of yours, you know you have a safe place to get whatever emotions you have about it out until it starts to feel better :) have a good day and happy new year! 

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14 hours ago, Eric63i8 said:

I was online and, I’m ashamed to say this, I have had a porn addiction for a couple of years. Lately porn wasn’t as exciting anymore but then I met someone on Omegle that said they’d go nude if I gave them pics. I sent 4 pics. 1 of my face, 1 of my face+dick, 1 of just my dick and one of half my face and my dick. Then he sent me something but i noticed that for 1 picture they had a tattoo and another they didn’t and I found out they just sent me random pics from the internet. Then they told me they’d leak my pics if I didn’t pay 5€ before 22:00 but I didn’t trust them so I went to my parents who contacted the police but I still want some extra help. We have his bank information and possibly name. But I’m 14 and just can’t deal with the fact that my crush might see it and I’ll never have a shot again. I already got so far with my crush and now it might all go to waste. Please help by giving advice.

PS: I’m 14

Heyy @Eric63i8, I am Luie, one of the support mentors with Ditch the Label. I see that you're new to our platform and community, Welcome! 

@georgiethefrog has shared some extremely helpful insights and support and I agree with them that even though you're feeling shame currently, it's something you're own up to and talk about. From the sound of it you're seeking help and I am glad you reached out to your parents who have contacted the police, it was the right step to take forward, must've taken a lot of courage to do so.

You mentioned that you have evidence of the conversation between you two, could you please send a screenshot of this with both of your usernames to support@ditchthelabel.org and we can report this for you. We are trusted flaggers at Ditch the Label, and any report we make is prioritised by the platform and looked at first, we will do our best to get the account removed. 

P.s. You can also seek further support one to one by messaging us on confidential support (next to blogs on the top bar) where the support mentors including myself provided one to one support to our members if that's more comfortable for you. 
 

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