elijah Posted August 13, 2018 Share Posted August 13, 2018 How do I know if I'm really trans or just unable to deal with the disadvantages of being female? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obelisk Posted August 13, 2018 Share Posted August 13, 2018 Honestly if you're questioning being trans, then you're most likely at least non-cis as cis folks usually don't question their gender identity - but idk. Maybe ask yourself, am I female? And go with your gut. If you say yes, then you are one, but you say no, then you aren't - but again, this is more complicated than that, to which I'd just recommend researching and/or experimenting with labels/identities to see which one fits you the most, if you want/need to do that. But that's just a suggestion. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ariisokay Posted August 13, 2018 Share Posted August 13, 2018 Don't let your feelings define who you are. You're more than trans or cis. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willow Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 Hey there Elijah! Thank you SO much for sharing the struggle you're going through. These are questions I've thought about, myself. It's nice to air out the inner struggle of identity around gender. Ariisokay has a good point-- I would encourage you to consider why it's important for you to have a label for yourself. How would a label benefit you? What "disadvantages of being female" have you encountered? What kinds of things would you like to do that you feel you cannot? -willow MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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