loverboy Posted October 27, 2022 Share Posted October 27, 2022 i will not be coming out to my grnadfather because he is transphobic and i have already come out to my grnadmother i live with my grnadparents she thinks i just want to be a tomboy how do i tell her this is for real and this isnt a one month thing and that i wanna transition or atleast cut my hairΒ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted October 27, 2022 Share Posted October 27, 2022 1 hour ago, loverboy said: i will not be coming out to my grnadfather because he is transphobic and i have already come out to my grnadmother i live with my grnadparents she thinks i just want to be a tomboy how do i tell her this is for real and this isnt a one month thing and that i wanna transition or atleast cut my hairΒ Very sorry I did not see this earlier. You could try explaining to her that your not just a Tomboy or that it isn't a phase, but that this is the real you & that you wanna transition or atleast have your hair cut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loverboy Posted October 27, 2022 Author Share Posted October 27, 2022 imma try that cuz im getting desperate but im terrified and she probably wont listen still Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted October 27, 2022 Share Posted October 27, 2022 1 minute ago, loverboy said: imma try that cuz im getting desperate but im terrified and she probably wont listen still Hmmmm, try not to think that the result of you explaining to her will be negative, try to stay positive & just have hopeΒ (Also you could try & sit her down so its just a 1 on 1, also try to make sure there'll be no distractions so she doesn't seem like shes not listening) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loverboy Posted October 27, 2022 Author Share Posted October 27, 2022 ok thanks ill try that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted October 27, 2022 Share Posted October 27, 2022 1 minute ago, loverboy said: ok thanks ill try that Np! Tell me how it goes (Only if ur comfortable!! I get a tad bit curious sometimes TvT) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loverboy Posted October 28, 2022 Author Share Posted October 28, 2022 ok ill let you knowΒ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted October 28, 2022 Share Posted October 28, 2022 2 hours ago, loverboy said: ok ill let you knowΒ Aight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 3, 2022 Share Posted November 3, 2022 On 10/28/2022 at 5:45 AM, loverboy said: ok ill let you knowΒ Have you come out yet or not wanting to at the moment? (Its okay if you don't wanna come out also, you could try whenever your ready!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loverboy Posted November 3, 2022 Author Share Posted November 3, 2022 i wrote a letter i think imma give it to them today the first time i came out my grnadmother said she didnt want me labeling myself let me know if you wanna know what the letter saysΒ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 3, 2022 Share Posted November 3, 2022 1 hour ago, loverboy said: i wrote a letter i think imma give it to them today the first time i came out my grnadmother said she didnt want me labeling myself let me know if you wanna know what the letter saysΒ Oooo well I'm glad you have a plan! I'm proud of u ^^ If ur comfortable with saying what the letter says than ye go for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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