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Hello, I'm new here, I was wondering if anyone was on right now.

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So, my parents won't let me eat anymore so I only get food when I go to school. 
They verbally abuse me to the point where even when I do eat I don't really want to but this is about my day. 
So, today my mom had a doctor's appointment and for some reason she took me, she took me to McDonalds and got me 2 cheeseburgers, she forced me to eat them then called me a fat who**. I am tired of this and no lie if they don't want me they can put me back in the foster care system. I don't even know how I could begin to tell them my sexuality when I get treated like this.

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2 hours ago, LightRose said:

So, my parents won't let me eat anymore so I only get food when I go to school. 
They verbally abuse me to the point where even when I do eat I don't really want to but this is about my day. 
So, today my mom had a doctor's appointment and for some reason she took me, she took me to McDonalds and got me 2 cheeseburgers, she forced me to eat them then called me a fat who**. I am tired of this and no lie if they don't want me they can put me back in the foster care system. I don't even know how I could begin to tell them my sexuality when I get treated like this.

Hey @LightRose

Welcome to the DTL community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to those who reach out. I'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time at home. Home should be a space where we feel safe and supported, and it sounds like the complete opposite for you at the moment. How have you been coping with all of this? Can I ask, do you feel safe at the moment? If not, it's okay to share this and we are here to help you. We can help you to cope with these feelings and get through it. Take care and speak soon.

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3 minutes ago, Monsoon said:

Hey @LightRose

Welcome to the DTL community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to those who reach out. I'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time at home. Home should be a space where we feel safe and supported, and it sounds like the complete opposite for you at the moment. How have you been coping with all of this? Can I ask, do you feel safe at the moment? If not, it's okay to share this and we are here to help you. We can help you to cope with these feelings and get through it. Take care and speak soon.

im not dealing with it in healthy ways 

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2 minutes ago, LightRose said:

im not dealing with it in healthy ways 

Hey there,

That's okay, and I really am grateful that you have been honest about that. Can you tell me more about how you've been dealing with it? Also, what do you think about the question around if home is safe or not? 

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6 minutes ago, Monsoon said:

Hey there,

That's okay, and I really am grateful that you have been honest about that. Can you tell me more about how you've been dealing with it? Also, what do you think about the question around if home is safe or not? 

1) self harming 2) im safe just not in a typical way

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12 hours ago, LightRose said:

So, my parents won't let me eat anymore so I only get food when I go to school. 
They verbally abuse me to the point where even when I do eat I don't really want to but this is about my day. 
So, today my mom had a doctor's appointment and for some reason she took me, she took me to McDonalds and got me 2 cheeseburgers, she forced me to eat them then called me a fat who**. I am tired of this and no lie if they don't want me they can put me back in the foster care system. I don't even know how I could begin to tell them my sexuality when I get treated like this.

I am so sorry that she is treating you this way. No one should ever treat children and young people in this way and you should not have had to go through that all on your own.

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6 minutes ago, TheOriginalAxel said:

I am so sorry that she is treating you this way. No one should ever treat children and young people in this way and you should not have had to go through that all on your own.

thank you for that. wanna talk after i get back from the restaurant?

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11 hours ago, LightRose said:

1) self harming 2) im safe just not in a typical way

Hey,

Thanks for telling me that. Are you able to tell me more about the self-harming? What do you do and how does it affect you? 

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14 hours ago, LightRose said:

So, my parents won't let me eat anymore so I only get food when I go to school. 
They verbally abuse me to the point where even when I do eat I don't really want to but this is about my day. 
So, today my mom had a doctor's appointment and for some reason she took me, she took me to McDonalds and got me 2 cheeseburgers, she forced me to eat them then called me a fat who**. I am tired of this and no lie if they don't want me they can put me back in the foster care system. I don't even know how I could begin to tell them my sexuality when I get treated like this.

hi! welcome to dtl

OMG that is not ok. it sounds like a really crappy situation that you are in, and I am so sorry you have to endure it. I would suggest ignoring what they say, I know it is simple but it works for me. I am having a huge fight with my mom, and whenever she says anything mean to me I pretend like there is this big shield over my body and when her insults touch they vaporize. for me whenever I sometimes get tired of the abuse too but I have to younger brothers and I don't wanna be separated from them since I love them more than anything in the world, so I tell myself to just hold on for them. I know its a shitty situation, and I don't blame you for feeling sick of it, believe me I get sick of it ALL the time.

you can do this!

they can really put you down, I am here for you if you wanna talk.

hope this helps 🫂💛

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1 hour ago, sflowergirl said:

hi! welcome to dtl

OMG that is not ok. it sounds like a really crappy situation that you are in, and I am so sorry you have to endure it. I would suggest ignoring what they say, I know it is simple but it works for me. I am having a huge fight with my mom, and whenever she says anything mean to me I pretend like there is this big shield over my body and when her insults touch they vaporize. for me whenever I sometimes get tired of the abuse too but I have to younger brothers and I don't wanna be separated from them since I love them more than anything in the world, so I tell myself to just hold on for them. I know its a shitty situation, and I don't blame you for feeling sick of it, believe me I get sick of it ALL the time.

you can do this!

they can really put you down, I am here for you if you wanna talk.

hope this helps 🫂💛

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Thank you so much, is there any way to like privately text someone?

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1 hour ago, Monsoon said:

Hey,

Thanks for telling me that. Are you able to tell me more about the self-harming? What do you do and how does it affect you? 

Dont really wanting  everyone on here knowing how i do it.

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33 minutes ago, LightRose said:

Thank you so much, is there any way to like privately text someone?

Um I dont think sooo unless you are ytalking to the me ntors,but I ams kinda new so I do not know much.

feel better! :)

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2 minutes ago, sflowergirl said:

Um I dont think sooo unless you are ytalking to the me ntors,but I ams kinda new so I do not know much.

feel better! :)

ok thx

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2 minutes ago, LightRose said:

ok thx

ye sry for typos I am bad typer lol also yr dog is cute!

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4 minutes ago, sflowergirl said:

ye sry for typos I am bad typer lol also yr dog is cute!

1) same and 2) thx her name is rose

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38 minutes ago, LightRose said:

1) same and 2) thx her name is rose

awww!

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1 minute ago, sflowergirl said:

awww!

lol shes with me rn if u want a pic

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43 minutes ago, LightRose said:

lol shes with me rn if u want a pic

YAS please I Lovee dogs!

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YAS please I Lovee dogs!

ok gimme a couple mins

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21 minutes ago, sflowergirl said:

YAS please I Lovee dogs!

oh wait i dot know how lol

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11 hours ago, LightRose said:

Dont really wanting  everyone on here knowing how i do it.

Hey there, I'm Blondie, one of the support mentors here. 

Completely understand. If you ever want to talk privately to a mentor just click on 'confidential support'. This will give you one to one support which is not public.

We're here for you.

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5 hours ago, Blondie said:

Hey there, I'm Blondie, one of the support mentors here. 

Completely understand. If you ever want to talk privately to a mentor just click on 'confidential support'. This will give you one to one support which is not public.

We're here for you.

ok thx

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On 10/14/2022 at 9:25 PM, LightRose said:

oh wait i dot know how lol

lol thts fine hru?

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1 minute ago, sflowergirl said:

lol thts fine hru?

im ok hbu

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