hawk Posted June 25, 2018 Share Posted June 25, 2018 Hi there,I'm just a fourteen year old guy living ?in the closet? in a homophobic environment .But I try not to let it discourage me.Im very meticulous in trying to extend my knowledge of the violin and have dreams to become a lawyer in the near future.Look forward to meeting you all ~Hawk MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
latinababy Posted June 26, 2018 Share Posted June 26, 2018 Hey, i sort of understand what you're going through. My family is filled with homophobes and the only people that know im bisexual are my two sisters and my close friends. if you want to talk about anything just hmu, reply back if you want my number or snapchat because i get that sometimes you just feel so alone when in reality youre not, you're just so lost in the dark that you cant see anyone else. ~ Latinababy MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Hey Hawk, Thanks for opening up to us - we are here to help you I am sorry to hear that you are in a homophobic environment. How are you feeling about it all? Also, have you thought about coming out? I understand if not, but here is a guide you may find useful due to the situation you are in. With you saying a homophobic environment, I am guessing that you mean your parents': https://www.ditchthelabel.org/coming-out-homophobic-parents/ It is important to realise that a lot of people are homophobic because of forced opinions through things like religion and culture. Their opinions may not represent how they actually feel, but it is just because they have been forced to think this way. When coming out to homophobic people, it is important to be patient. Their reaction will probably be bad, but a lot of people just need time to come to terms with it. I think it's great that you have other things to focus on. When people go through similar situations, the problem can take over their lives, so it is great that you are practising the violin and have aspirations. I hope this advice helps and I look forward to hearing back from you. Sending positive vibes -Monsoon MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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