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I am confused. I've had sexual dreams with women in it before, when I was about 16 or 17, a few times(very less compared to the ones with men). I did not really think about it then. Now that I am more educated about the lgbtq community, and have had some more dreams with women in it, I have begun to question my sexuality. The thing is, I haven't had a crush or feelings towards a woman in my life. I've only had them in my dreams. I'm 22 now, it doesn't seem to be an age to discover something new about myself. It makes me wonder if it's just me wanting to be a part of something or if it is indeed, me having an attraction to both genders. Is it common to find out about your bisexuality as an adult? Is there somebody here who is or has been in the same stage as me? 

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5 hours ago, pav said:

I am confused. I've had sexual dreams with women in it before, when I was about 16 or 17, a few times(very less compared to the ones with men). I did not really think about it then. Now that I am more educated about the lgbtq community, and have had some more dreams with women in it, I have begun to question my sexuality. The thing is, I haven't had a crush or feelings towards a woman in my life. I've only had them in my dreams. I'm 22 now, it doesn't seem to be an age to discover something new about myself. It makes me wonder if it's just me wanting to be a part of something or if it is indeed, me having an attraction to both genders. Is it common to find out about your bisexuality as an adult? Is there somebody here who is or has been in the same stage as me? 

Hey!

Of course its common, you can literally find out at any age! I know some people have childhood signs but your sexuality is something that is fluid and can change. Also, to be bi, you don't have to have a crush on a woman in irl if that is something that you think about. You can explore your sexuality at any age!! Well, I can kind of relate to you because I always had attraction to the same gender since a really young child and started exploring and using labels at like about 12. There are many people who can relate to you and I don't want you feeling alone-if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask, hope that helped :)

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