lynley Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 hi! ive gone by she/her pronouns most of my life, switched to she/they, then they/them, now i might be a she/they but those words don't fit right for me. they/them feels like it does but i don't like only being called they/them and i feel like im a she/her but i also like being called a they so im really confused. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynley Posted July 7, 2022 Author Share Posted July 7, 2022 also i identify as a girl ! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chocolate chip 9909 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Ya, pronouns are confusing! But maybe u could explain how u feel a little more? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynley Posted July 8, 2022 Author Share Posted July 8, 2022 3 hours ago, Chocolate chip 9909 said: Ya, pronouns are confusing! But maybe u could explain how u feel a little more? it's really hard for me to explain but i feel comfortable with they/them and she/her, however the words "she/they" don't feel like the match me. i know im a girl which makes me question they/them even more. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urfavekpopstan ! Posted July 8, 2022 Share Posted July 8, 2022 5 hours ago, lynley said: hi! ive gone by she/her pronouns most of my life, switched to she/they, then they/them, now i might be a she/they but those words don't fit right for me. they/them feels like it does but i don't like only being called they/them and i feel like im a she/her but i also like being called a they so im really confused. Understood, I see that pronouns may be confusing sometimes for you. How would you feel if your pronouns were fluid. For example one day you're a she/her, she/they, they/them, etc. Pronouns are something that can be fluid and even change everyday for some! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urfavekpopstan ! Posted July 8, 2022 Share Posted July 8, 2022 3 minutes ago, lynley said: it's really hard for me to explain but i feel comfortable with they/them and she/her, however the words "she/they" don't feel like the match me. i know im a girl which makes me question they/them even more. You can still identify as a girl and use gender neutral pronouns. Pronouns don't equal gender. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chocolate chip 9909 Posted July 8, 2022 Share Posted July 8, 2022 4 hours ago, lynley said: it's really hard for me to explain but i feel comfortable with they/them and she/her, however the words "she/they" don't feel like the match me. i know im a girl which makes me question they/them even more. Well, I really don’t know much about pronouns, but this is ur identity so u can absolutely be be a girl with they/them or she/they or any other pronouns. Just try things out and see what works. I hope this will help u! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alpha9th Posted August 4, 2022 Share Posted August 4, 2022 On 7/8/2022 at 6:18 AM, lynley said: it's really hard for me to explain but i feel comfortable with they/them and she/her, however the words "she/they" don't feel like the match me. i know im a girl which makes me question they/them even more. Hey there, If it isn't too personal, can you explain why do you prefered "she/they" in a first place? Maybe an answer on this question is halfway to the solution. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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