randomguy Posted June 10, 2018 Share Posted June 10, 2018 So bassically I dunno why but i just don't care about romantic relationships never had and in all 19yrs of my life I've never had a boyfriend or other when people ask I avoid the question as I personally don't want to say as I know if that happens people would make fun of me as most people my age already have boyfriends or other. It doesn't help in my college a boy in the level below me. I spend time with a friend who's a boy because otherwise he is on his own during lunch or breaks and that student makes remarks of asking if we're dating which I hate as I said I don't care and just because we're different genders doesn't mean we're dating. He tries to trick me Into saying yes which i hate as I said I don't care about romantic relationships but I don't say anything as I feel like If I do I'll just get made fun off. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mckayla16 Posted June 10, 2018 Share Posted June 10, 2018 There is a sexual orientation that is what you describe called aromantic . I'm not an expert on it but I'm asexual myself and there kinda related but opposite. aromantic is when an individual isn't able to or doesn't experance feeling of romantic love. I would do some research of your own. I went through the same feels as you, but it's important to remember that you don't owe anyone an explanation for what you do or don't feel. If this guy makes you feel bad and is pressuring you then he is disregard your feelings. Be proud of who you are no matter lack of feelings or surplus! I hope this helps. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randomguy Posted June 11, 2018 Author Share Posted June 11, 2018 Thanks and I will reaserch more as it sounds confusing MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willow Posted June 13, 2018 Share Posted June 13, 2018 Hey RandomGuy! Great question! Many people don't feel sexual attraction or interest in romantic relationships with people. If you're comfortable not wanting or needing a relationship, that's perfectly okay! Telling people you're not interested in having a romantic relationship, is a perfectly reasonable answer.. and if you wonder why you don't want a relationship, we can try to figure out if there's an underlying cause. Friendships between guys and girls shouldn't get so much attention. It sounds like the boy in the year below you can see it makes you uncomfortable. That kind of pressure and teasing is unwanted. Maybe you can speak to him, calmly, about you not liking how he approaches you and your friend. How does your friend feel about that boy coming up to you two and saying things? -willow MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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