Inu Posted June 21, 2022 Share Posted June 21, 2022 I have had 3 relationship before. And none of them were actually love. I have kissed boys but i never had any butterflies or special feelings. I am always conscious about what's happening and just can't feel anything. Neither with my first kiss nor with the recent one have i felt anything. I have this fantasy about kissing a girl. I don't know what i should do, should i try dating girls or i am just thinking too much about this.????? But how could I feel nothing with any of them. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Daisie Posted June 22, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted June 22, 2022 (edited) Hey @Inu Welcome to the Community! I am Daisie a Community Warden here on the Forums, and I wanted to send you a warm welcome, we have Trained Digital Mentors on hand to offer support and advice, and I wondered if you’d feel it’s beneficial to talk things through with one of them? I will tag them in so you know who they are and so they can reach out. @Blondie & @Aurora If you need anything in the meantime feel free to give me a shout. Edited June 22, 2022 by Daisie MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted June 22, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 22, 2022 12 hours ago, Inu said: I have had 3 relationship before. And none of them were actually love. I have kissed boys but i never had any butterflies or special feelings. I am always conscious about what's happening and just can't feel anything. Neither with my first kiss nor with the recent one have i felt anything. I have this fantasy about kissing a girl. I don't know what i should do, should i try dating girls or i am just thinking too much about this.????? But how could I feel nothing with any of them. Hi @Inu, welcome to the Ditch the Label community . I’m Aurora, and as Daisy kindly pointed out, I’m one of the support mentors here. I give advice to those who reach out to us. Thank you for opening up about how you feel. You’ve definitely come to the right place - this community is a very supportive and accepting place. There are lots of others on here, who feel the same as you and are trying to figure out their sexuality. It sounds to me like you have been thinking about what it would be like, dating a girl. What do you think is stopping you? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inu Posted June 23, 2022 Author Share Posted June 23, 2022 I don't know , i haven't just tried it. But do you think just not feeling it with boys is enough for me to be confused. I just wanna know, if i am overthinking it too much. Should I just let it be. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E_O Posted June 23, 2022 Share Posted June 23, 2022 Hey girl, I've been there. Sexuality is confusing, and you don't need "enough" evidence in order to question it. Don't do anything that you're not ready for, but if you're comfortable with the idea of dating a girl, why not try it? Maybe you'll love it, maybe you'll hate it, and both are ok! Or maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet, and that's okay too. This is an article which could help you to figure out some stuff. (https://divethru.com/what-to-do-if-youre-questioning-your-sexuality/). Best of luck, and remember, you are valid :) x 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted June 24, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/23/2022 at 6:47 AM, Inu said: I don't know , i haven't just tried it. But do you think just not feeling it with boys is enough for me to be confused. I just wanna know, if i am overthinking it too much. Should I just let it be. Thank you to @E_O for jumping in. What do you think of their advice? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inu Posted June 24, 2022 Author Share Posted June 24, 2022 Thankyou everyone for helping me. I ll try to be more free and take up your suggestions. 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.