Hazard Posted June 5, 2022 Share Posted June 5, 2022 I've been having trouble making myself sleep lately, because of a recurring nightmare that just hurts so much. The worst part about the nightmare is that it could come true at any time. It's awful, and the nightmare starts from the moment I close my eyes-not even when I'm asleep- to a while after I've woken up. I've been avoiding going to sleep because of it and I don't know what to do. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted June 6, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted June 6, 2022 10 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: I've been having trouble making myself sleep lately, because of a recurring nightmare that just hurts so much. The worst part about the nightmare is that it could come true at any time. It's awful, and the nightmare starts from the moment I close my eyes-not even when I'm asleep- to a while after I've woken up. I've been avoiding going to sleep because of it and I don't know what to do. Hey there, this sounds really unsettling and it sounds like we need to find some ways to break the cycle. Can I ask what the nightmares are about if you feel comfortable sharing? We can chat via DM if you'd prefer. I'm also leaving some good resources below which should help: 50 things if you can't sleep: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/50-things-cant-sleep/ 6 steps for your best sleep: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/six-steps-to-the-best-sleep-of-your-life/ MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted June 6, 2022 Author Share Posted June 6, 2022 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. 9 hours ago, Blondie said: Hey there, this sounds really unsettling and it sounds like we need to find some ways to break the cycle. Can I ask what the nightmares are about if you feel comfortable sharing? We can chat via DM if you'd prefer. I'm also leaving some good resources below which should help: 50 things if you can't sleep: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/50-things-cant-sleep/ 6 steps for your best sleep: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/six-steps-to-the-best-sleep-of-your-life/ Essentially, the nightmare starts off with me and my dad in a car, and then we get into a crash my dad dies in and my mom blames me for it, and then I get thrown out and react like, well, like how someone in that scenario would react, with a lot of sh and suicidal thoughts. And after I wake up, it just hovers in my brain. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted June 7, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted June 7, 2022 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. On 6/6/2022 at 8:22 PM, Emberfrost12 said: Essentially, the nightmare starts off with me and my dad in a car, and then we get into a crash my dad dies in and my mom blames me for it, and then I get thrown out and react like, well, like how someone in that scenario would react, with a lot of sh and suicidal thoughts. And after I wake up, it just hovers in my brain. That sounds really distressing. Do you think it relates to anything that’s going on in your life? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted June 8, 2022 Author Share Posted June 8, 2022 My mom and I have been fighting a lot, I guess that may have something to do with it? And I've always had a fear of rejection. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted June 8, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted June 8, 2022 1 hour ago, Emberfrost12 said: My mom and I have been fighting a lot, I guess that may have something to do with it? And I've always had a fear of rejection. It does sound like that might be why it’s going into your dreams. Are you able to talk to your mom and clear the air? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted June 8, 2022 Author Share Posted June 8, 2022 3 hours ago, Blondie said: It does sound like that might be why it’s going into your dreams. Are you able to talk to your mom and clear the air? Probably not right now, I got in another fight with her last night and we haven’t really talked since that MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted June 8, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted June 8, 2022 1 hour ago, Emberfrost12 said: Probably not right now, I got in another fight with her last night and we haven’t really talked since that Ah I see. Always best to wait for the right moment. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted June 8, 2022 Author Share Posted June 8, 2022 Just now, Blondie said: Ah I see. Always best to wait for the right moment. Yeah. my mom and I need to have a conversation. I'm going to try to do that asap 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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