emm Posted May 25, 2022 Share Posted May 25, 2022 (edited) hi, I don't know how to use this website. I just don't know what is my sexual orientation and I want to understand what I want, but I think I need help :( I hope everybody are having a great day Edited May 25, 2022 by emm I don't know English enough :( sorry MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Daisie Posted May 25, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 25, 2022 Hey @emm Welcome to the community I am Daisie a Community Warden here on the forums and I just wanted to send you a warm welcome, we have Trained Mentors on hand to give support and advice. I'll tag them in so you know who they are and so they can reach out @Monsoon & @Blondie Look forward to seeing you around. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted May 26, 2022 Share Posted May 26, 2022 13 hours ago, emm said: hi, I don't know how to use this website. I just don't know what is my sexual orientation and I want to understand what I want, but I think I need help :( I hope everybody are having a great day Hey @emm Welcome to the DTL community. We can definitely help you with understanding our sexuality orientation and what you want, so you've come to the right place :) Would you like to tell me more about the feelings you're having around your orientation and what you want? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emm Posted May 26, 2022 Author Share Posted May 26, 2022 7 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey @emm Welcome to the DTL community. We can definitely help you with understanding our sexuality orientation and what you want, so you've come to the right place :) Would you like to tell me more about the feelings you're having around your orientation and what you want? I've always liked boys and a few years ago I started having feelings for my best friend, but at first I didn't accept it because I had never had feelings for a girl and I didn't know if what I felt was right. Now I know about bisexuality, I've been thinking about it. now i know a girl and i started to have feelings for her but i don't know, i'm very confused about what i feel for her and i don't want to be wrong. I'm so confused. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted May 27, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 27, 2022 17 hours ago, emm said: I've always liked boys and a few years ago I started having feelings for my best friend, but at first I didn't accept it because I had never had feelings for a girl and I didn't know if what I felt was right. Now I know about bisexuality, I've been thinking about it. now i know a girl and i started to have feelings for her but i don't know, i'm very confused about what i feel for her and i don't want to be wrong. I'm so confused. Hi emm, thanks so much for explaining. Firstly, whatever you are feeling is completely valid (and can feel pretty overwhelming sometimes) but I realise you'd like to be able to know whether this is attraction / romantic feelings or love for a friend. When you think about her do you feel love in the sense of she's a great person or do you think about potentially dating or being romantic? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emm Posted May 27, 2022 Author Share Posted May 27, 2022 4 hours ago, Blondie said: Hi emm, thanks so much for explaining. Firstly, whatever you are feeling is completely valid (and can feel pretty overwhelming sometimes) but I realise you'd like to be able to know whether this is attraction / romantic feelings or love for a friend. When you think about her do you feel love in the sense of she's a great person or do you think about potentially dating or being romantic? I think about a possible date, I want to be romantic with her but I don't know how to start. She confuses me because at first she was very close to me, she hugged me a lot, she was sticky with me and now too, but I don't know if that's because she's my friend and is trying to be friendly or if is looking for something else. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted May 27, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 27, 2022 1 hour ago, emm said: I think about a possible date, I want to be romantic with her but I don't know how to start. She confuses me because at first she was very close to me, she hugged me a lot, she was sticky with me and now too, but I don't know if that's because she's my friend and is trying to be friendly or if is looking for something else. In the time you've know her, has she ever mentioned anything about her own attractions? And I wonder if you've ever had chats about different sexual orientations to get an indication of how she feels even in a very general sense? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emm Posted May 29, 2022 Author Share Posted May 29, 2022 On 5/27/2022 at 1:34 PM, Blondie said: In the time you've know her, has she ever mentioned anything about her own attractions? And I wonder if you've ever had chats about different sexual orientations to get an indication of how she feels even in a very general sense? yes, we were talking and she told me is bisexual MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted May 29, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 29, 2022 11 hours ago, emm said: yes, we were talking and she told me is bisexual Usually one person will need to take the lead so I wonder how would you feel about saying "would you like to go on a date sometime?" MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 On 5/25/2022 at 7:33 PM, emm said: hi, I don't know how to use this website. I just don't know what is my sexual orientation and I want to understand what I want, but I think I need help :( I hope everybody are having a great day Hello, Emm. Welcome to the community, I see the mentors have been in touch but won't say much more but, I am pleased you've joined us, we are here to support you, we are a supportive young people community who are here for one another, sending you much love, Leila x MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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