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So my partner came out as trans the other day and I've been supportive but I'm terrified that once they begin to transition, I'm not going to be attracted to them anymore. I want romance with them and I love them so much and I'm so scared. I'm not sure if im bi, I've questioned it for a while, finding girls pretty and thinking about what it would be like, but I'm not sure. I guess I'm also scared because I wish things could go back to normal but its her life, I would never stop her from being herself. It brings her so much happiness and I would never be selfish like that. 

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Hey @peppermintsugar

Welcome to our community and thank you for sharing your situation with us. I'm grateful that you feel comfortable to be open here. I think it's understandable for you to feel the way you do about this; there are about to be some big changes for your relationship. I'm wondering, have you spoken to her about how you're feeling? Also, what do you think your gut is telling you about the situation? 


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