Lima xx Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 I think about girls and guys. And I am not too sure if I am bi. I want to tell my current boyfriend but I am so scared. I love him very much and he means a lot to me. How do I go about it? I am so mixed up right now. Please pop up and help me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimoa Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Me too,but if you're not sure that you are bi take some time and think about it,when you're completely sure or ready tell him.And if not him first tell someone you are very close and you trust. Take some time and explore yourself whatever you find out about yourself make sure it makes you happy. Wish you the best 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lima xx Posted June 11, 2021 Author Share Posted June 11, 2021 Thank you sooooo much that was super helpful MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimoa Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 You're welcome. Talking about my experience in my country no one has come out so it was really scary for us ( me and my girlfriend ) even now nobody knows that we are dating.moreover I didn't have anyone to talk to them we met each other we became friends we talked about love then boom we fell in love with others for 2 yrs so the best is yet to come be happy MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lima xx Posted June 11, 2021 Author Share Posted June 11, 2021 Oh wow that’s beautiful but at the same time how are you two going through it in secret? And where are you from? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimoa Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 I live in Somalia (Africa) we live together and we tell people that we are bfs. Homosexuality and bisexuality is so dead wrong they say but we don't about them we let them think of us what they want but the moment when we are with each other it is so magical and it is so worth it MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lima xx Posted June 11, 2021 Author Share Posted June 11, 2021 Ohhhh wow yes in Africa it is not really acceptable at all. I am from Congo and it is the same over there too but I live in London. I am so glad you are living in your truth and I pray that everyone that is close to you will accept your beautiful relationship. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimoa Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 I sent you dms MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 5 hours ago, Lima xx said: I think about girls and guys. And I am not too sure if I am bi. I want to tell my current boyfriend but I am so scared. I love him very much and he means a lot to me. How do I go about it? I am so mixed up right now. Please pop up and help me Hey Lima, Welcome to our community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to our members who reach out to us. Thank you for telling me about your uncertainty around your sexual orientation. I'm glad to hear that you love your boyfriend very much and that he means a lot to you. As Nimoa said, it might be a good idea to wait until you're sure of your sexuality and then go from there. However, I wonder if it could also help for you to tell him that you're uncertain at the moment too? What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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