Kin Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 has anyone ever had issues with an older sibling that hates you so much u have to leave from a family supper. My oldest brother treats me crappy and is against my mental illness. Big time. It gets to the point where it triggers me to want to self harm and worse. I’m sick and tired from feeling his hate. I can’t do it anymore. I’m tired!! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted May 28, 2019 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 28, 2019 @Kin I can relate! Honestly just because we are related to people doesn't always mean we like them or get on. Is there a way you can limit your interactions with this sibling? Have you ever been able to sit down with them and talk it through to see if you can move forward? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4805 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kin Posted May 28, 2019 Author Share Posted May 28, 2019 Thanks for the advice Blondie. I think I’m gonna just leave when he comes around. He won’t sit down and talk about it. Not like I chose mental illness. It’s so frustrating. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4812 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Blondie Posted May 28, 2019 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted May 28, 2019 @Kin It's definitely self-care to take yourself away from the situation so that's an awesome idea. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4813 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 Hey @Kin Sorry to hear this. Have you any other family members that could have a word with him for you and tell him to ease up and respect your health? If this isn't possible, then you could always do what Blondie said and try and limit your interactions with him? -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4825 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kin Posted May 30, 2019 Author Share Posted May 30, 2019 Dear Remi ive had fam try to talk to him he just dosent get it or won’t even try. It’s sad actually. I hate feeling like this. But I’ll try to stay away from him. Best I can. Kin MultiQuote Quote Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4837 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remi Posted May 30, 2019 Share Posted May 30, 2019 Hey Kin, I know don't like it, but you remember that you are the only thing in life you can control, you cannot control how he thinks but you can decide how YOU want to react to him. -Remi MultiQuote Quote This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment https://forums.ditchthelabel.org/topic/1095-hate/#findComment-4840 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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