owly9 Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 I'm worried that people I used to work with in the past have created a mean blog or forum thread about me listing things I've said - or supposedly said and done or exaggerated versions of them - and the people I work with now can see it and some of the nastier ones are adding to it. People are avoiding me and snickering at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peach311 Posted September 8, 2017 Share Posted September 8, 2017 Hey Owly9 Welcome to our community! ?'? Thanks for your post and I'm sorry to hear what's been happening. Have you seen the blog yourself? The reason I ask is it sounds like you are not quite sure. Work place bullying is very distressing, so well done for reaching out for support no one should have to go through it alone. Does anyone at work know? You have every right to report it as no one should feel humiliated or isolated. This article has some good points which i think could help. Have a read and let me know what you think? https://www.ditchthelabel.org/10-things-can-bullied-workplace/ Sending positivity. ?? -Peach311 This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owly9 Posted September 8, 2017 Author Share Posted September 8, 2017 Hi thanks. I havent seen it but have overheard conversations about me where people are saying things about me that happened in a previous job. I havent asked becuase I think only the people writing it would be able to see it and would tell people I was paraniod if I mentioned anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peach311 Posted September 11, 2017 Share Posted September 11, 2017 Hey Owly9, That is a tough one to deal with. What have you tried so far to deal with it? Be good to know so i don't suggest trying something that you already have. Are you on social media? Sending positivity. -peach311 This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owly9 Posted September 12, 2017 Author Share Posted September 12, 2017 I have tried to rise above it and be as friendly as I can so hopefully people will make up their own minds. If I get angry about it hey will only say the blog is right and I'm an angry person or deny it and say I'm making it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peach311 Posted September 13, 2017 Share Posted September 13, 2017 Hey Owly9, ? That sounds great, massive well done for continuing to be respectful and positive. Do you have anyone at work you trust enough to confide in about what you are going through? We are all here for you and this really is a safe space to talk any or all of it through whenever you need. ? Sending positivity -Peach311 This Digital Mentor Account is no longer active. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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