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Heyyy things have been ok, its been a mix of emotions I'm just gonna rant though

First some of the bad things, there are these two boy in my class the kept making sexual comments about me and it made me upset but I am getting help with it. Me and one of my close friends got in to an argument and we aren't talking anymore and I'm pretty sad about that but she also tried to replace me cause I felt left out. Things at home have been ok its still a little crazy the yelling hasn't gotten better but the hitting and stuff has gotten better. 

Ok so that's all the bad stuff I can think of right now. 

So for the good, I am going to get my ears peirced again and I got a tattoo yesterday I was really happy about that, Ummm yesterday I was being really dumb I was sitting in a car seat. It was so funny. For marching band we are going to BOA (Bands of America) its a really big thing for marching band and only a few bands go. we are going to try really hard to make finals but it will be a challenge. Schools has been going good which is a first lol, I haven't been getting in to as many arguments.  My anxeity is better and that's really good! 

that's kinda just my little rant of how things have been, Bye have a good day/Night!

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19 hours ago, -Aussie- said:

Heyyy things have been ok, its been a mix of emotions I'm just gonna rant though

First some of the bad things, there are these two boy in my class the kept making sexual comments about me and it made me upset but I am getting help with it. Me and one of my close friends got in to an argument and we aren't talking anymore and I'm pretty sad about that but she also tried to replace me cause I felt left out. Things at home have been ok its still a little crazy the yelling hasn't gotten better but the hitting and stuff has gotten better. 

Ok so that's all the bad stuff I can think of right now. 

So for the good, I am going to get my ears peirced again and I got a tattoo yesterday I was really happy about that, Ummm yesterday I was being really dumb I was sitting in a car seat. It was so funny. For marching band we are going to BOA (Bands of America) its a really big thing for marching band and only a few bands go. we are going to try really hard to make finals but it will be a challenge. Schools has been going good which is a first lol, I haven't been getting in to as many arguments.  My anxeity is better and that's really good! 

that's kinda just my little rant of how things have been, Bye have a good day/Night!

Hi @-Aussie- It's nice to see that you have a space now, to rant and also talk about what has been going well 😊 Before I reply to anything you've written I just wanted to  check if you would like people to reply or if you would prefer to have this as a space just for you and your own thoughts? Whatever works best for you 🙂

I've sent you a message on CS as well in case you want to talk about some of the things you've been finding difficult 1-2-1. 

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8 hours ago, Aurora said:

Hi @-Aussie- It's nice to see that you have a space now, to rant and also talk about what has been going well 😊 Before I reply to anything you've written I just wanted to  check if you would like people to reply or if you would prefer to have this as a space just for you and your own thoughts? Whatever works best for you 🙂

I've sent you a message on CS as well in case you want to talk about some of the things you've been finding difficult 1-2-1. 

I don't care but I will look at it

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On 9/27/2024 at 8:47 PM, -Aussie- said:

I don't care but I will look at it

Sorry for my late reply. I somehow missed your message when I was last online. When you say 'I don't care' do you mean you don't care if people reply to your post or did you mean something else? 

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2 hours ago, Aurora said:

Sorry for my late reply. I somehow missed your message when I was last online. When you say 'I don't care' do you mean you don't care if people reply to your post or did you mean something else? 

yeah that's what I ment sorry for the confusion 

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20 hours ago, -Aussie- said:

yeah that's what I ment sorry for the confusion 

No problem, I just wanted to double check so I know, in case you post a new update on here 😊

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I know im going to be gone for awhile but i need to rant about this first

Me and my gf have been in a relationship for 10ish months but we are going to break up, and i feel bad about it but I feel like we never had a true relationship and i want something like that idk if that makes sense but there is this other boy i like and i feel my self looking at him more than i look at her and i feel like my love for he is more of friend love now.

idk does anyone have advice or just anything? 

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18 hours ago, -Aussie- said:

I know im going to be gone for awhile but i need to rant about this first

Me and my gf have been in a relationship for 10ish months but we are going to break up, and i feel bad about it but I feel like we never had a true relationship and i want something like that idk if that makes sense but there is this other boy i like and i feel my self looking at him more than i look at her and i feel like my love for he is more of friend love now.

idk does anyone have advice or just anything? 

Hi there, of course, no problem at all. Rant away 🙂

It sounds like you're in a tricky situation there. Can I just check if I got this right? You and your girlfriend are still together but you don't feel like you still have feelings for her. She feels more like a friend to you now, rather than a romantic partner but you do feel like you might have feelings for someone else. Is that correct? You mentioned that you are going to break up. Is that because you want to break up with her or do you think that she also wants to break up? 

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1 hour ago, Aurora said:

Hi there, of course, no problem at all. Rant away 🙂

It sounds like you're in a tricky situation there. Can I just check if I got this right? You and your girlfriend are still together but you don't feel like you still have feelings for her. She feels more like a friend to you now, rather than a romantic partner but you do feel like you might have feelings for someone else. Is that correct? You mentioned that you are going to break up. Is that because you want to break up with her or do you think that she also wants to break up? 

yeah you got everything right. 

I think its moreof both we have both been being distance and I want to but i think she also does. I feel like she would be happier if she was with someone else

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On 10/25/2024 at 1:06 PM, -Aussie- said:

yeah you got everything right. 

I think its moreof both we have both been being distance and I want to but i think she also does. I feel like she would be happier if she was with someone else

In that case my advice would be to trust your instincts.. We're often quite good at picking up on those kinds of things. Have you thought about having an honest conversation with your girlfriend about how you feel and how you feel like she has also been distant and that you think she would probably be happier with someone else? 

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3 hours ago, Aurora said:

In that case my advice would be to trust your instincts.. We're often quite good at picking up on those kinds of things. Have you thought about having an honest conversation with your girlfriend about how you feel and how you feel like she has also been distant and that you think she would probably be happier with someone else? 

yeah so me and her arent dating anymore and i found out that the guy i like has a gf and they have been togeather for 1 month. Now im getting mixed feelings from him though too cause he said i should go watch his show and he would watch mine and i told him maybe not cause he is in percussion and that is loud and he told me i can have his head phones and he tried to give me his jacket at  finals cause i was shaking it was that cold. Idk and im gettin mixed signals. 

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17 hours ago, -Aussie- said:

yeah so me and her arent dating anymore and i found out that the guy i like has a gf and they have been togeather for 1 month. Now im getting mixed feelings from him though too cause he said i should go watch his show and he would watch mine and i told him maybe not cause he is in percussion and that is loud and he told me i can have his head phones and he tried to give me his jacket at  finals cause i was shaking it was that cold. Idk and im gettin mixed signals. 

Hi @-Aussie- -- it can be difficult when we aren't sure how to read the behaviour or gestures of someone we are developing feelings for. In this case, it seems like this is complicated further by the fact that this person already has a gf. I think the first step is to figure out is if this is something you would even want to pursue atm. What are your thoughts on this?

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4 hours ago, Lennie said:

Hi @-Aussie- -- it can be difficult when we aren't sure how to read the behaviour or gestures of someone we are developing feelings for. In this case, it seems like this is complicated further by the fact that this person already has a gf. I think the first step is to figure out is if this is something you would even want to pursue atm. What are your thoughts on this?

Im ok with being in a relationship now even though me and my gf just broke up cause I feel like we were just friends with the bf/gf title. I have liked this boy since the start of marching band so idk how I feel about it. He has a really really good personality me and him get along really well and he is cute. I know that he doesnt like anyone touching his headphones even his gf so the fact he said i could wear them and use them makes me questions things

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1 hour ago, -Aussie- said:

Im ok with being in a relationship now even though me and my gf just broke up cause I feel like we were just friends with the bf/gf title. I have liked this boy since the start of marching band so idk how I feel about it. He has a really really good personality me and him get along really well and he is cute. I know that he doesnt like anyone touching his headphones even his gf so the fact he said i could wear them and use them makes me questions things

Hi @-Aussie-. Perhaps as you continue to hangout with this person things might become clearer. Or at least it might give you an opportunity to eventually bring up the topic about whether he is interested in being more than just friends. Perhaps allowing your friendship to continue to develop naturally might be the best way to see if there is the potential for more. What do you think about what I’m suggesting? 

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42 minutes ago, Mestizo said:

Hi @-Aussie-. Perhaps as you continue to hangout with this person things might become clearer. Or at least it might give you an opportunity to eventually bring up the topic about whether he is interested in being more than just friends. Perhaps allowing your friendship to continue to develop naturally might be the best way to see if there is the potential for more. What do you think about what I’m suggesting? 

yeah I think I will do that just keep being friends with him and see how things go

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21 hours ago, -Aussie- said:

yeah I think I will do that just keep being friends with him and see how things go

Do keep us posted, if you feel comfortable of course. I wish you the best. 

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