My mom's EX bf!!!

[kayleighm129]

Anyone who's ready my story from my other acc Ashybean1 then you'd know abt my mom's bf... Now an ex.

I'm so glad he's gone, she told me and my brother back in June of this year that she was gonna leave him. Basically he had been mentally and emotionally abusing my mom, put her in like 20 to 30k dollars in debt or smth like that, dictated how she raised us, how well we did our chores, etc.

He doesn't have any fucking kids so how would u know how to raise a kid or how well we do. He hated how she'd thank and congratulate for that which makes us feel good and wanna do it more.. well he hated that. For the first year and a half of him living with us my mom paid for everything so clothes, hair stuff, food, shoes (he likes those Nike and Jordan) etc. All around kinda an expensive guy and mind u he didnt have a job during that time. My mom had tried to kick him out like twice before June and he punched a hole in the closet door the first time and there bathroom door the second.. we lived in an Apartment.

Me and my brother went on vacay and when we got back we were in a new apt without my mom's EX bf. On my moms bday last month, she wakes me up and I go to the bathroom then go out in the kitchen. I see some cute flowers, roses, and I said those are cute who got them. My mom smiled a mischievous smile and said "guess.." my smile dropped and I said "John?!" (That's not his real name it's fake) She nodded and in my head I wondered why he knew our address.. he also bought all of us venti Starbucks. I had told my uncle same day cuz we went to evergreen fair. He asked my mom why he had the address and she said "bc he would stop annoying me abt it saying that he'd get from either me or Jessie(fake name for my aunt) and so I gave it to him so he'd shut up." My aunt wouldn't of given that too him bc she hates him and prob has him blocked and or removed from her phone. 

 

I have anything related to him deleted and gone. Me and everyone is so much happier. 

 

I can go deeper or answer any questions y'all have if you want but I think that's all so far.

 

He also got tiktok jus to stalk my mom.. she openly told me that

[Mestizo]

On 9/16/2024 at 12:24 AM, kayleighm129 said:

Anyone who's ready my story from my other acc Ashybean1 then you'd know abt my mom's bf... Now an ex.

I'm so glad he's gone, she told me and my brother back in June of this year that she was gonna leave him. Basically he had been mentally and emotionally abusing my mom, put her in like 20 to 30k dollars in debt or smth like that, dictated how she raised us, how well we did our chores, etc.

He doesn't have any fucking kids so how would u know how to raise a kid or how well we do. He hated how she'd thank and congratulate for that which makes us feel good and wanna do it more.. well he hated that. For the first year and a half of him living with us my mom paid for everything so clothes, hair stuff, food, shoes (he likes those Nike and Jordan) etc. All around kinda an expensive guy and mind u he didnt have a job during that time. My mom had tried to kick him out like twice before June and he punched a hole in the closet door the first time and there bathroom door the second.. we lived in an Apartment.

Me and my brother went on vacay and when we got back we were in a new apt without my mom's EX bf. On my moms bday last month, she wakes me up and I go to the bathroom then go out in the kitchen. I see some cute flowers, roses, and I said those are cute who got them. My mom smiled a mischievous smile and said "guess.." my smile dropped and I said "John?!" (That's not his real name it's fake) She nodded and in my head I wondered why he knew our address.. he also bought all of us venti Starbucks. I had told my uncle same day cuz we went to evergreen fair. He asked my mom why he had the address and she said "bc he would stop annoying me abt it saying that he'd get from either me or Jessie(fake name for my aunt) and so I gave it to him so he'd shut up." My aunt wouldn't of given that too him bc she hates him and prob has him blocked and or removed from her phone. 

I have anything related to him deleted and gone. Me and everyone is so much happier. 

I can go deeper or answer any questions y'all have if you want but I think that's all so far.

He also got tiktok jus to stalk my mom.. she openly told me that

Hi @kayleighm129. I’m Mestizo, one of the Support Mentors with Ditch the Label. Thank you for sharing about your experience with your Mother’s Ex. I’m sorry to hear that he had been mentally and emotionally abusive towards your mother and contributed to her debt. It makes complete sense that you’d be disappointed about her Ex reaching out again to your new address. If you don’t mind me asking, and feel free to not answer any of my questions if you prefer not to, did you say anything to your mom about how you felt that he had sent the flowers and drinks? If so, what was her response to you? Are you worried that they might get back together? What is your relationship like between you and your mother?