Talking to my ex-bully to reconcile the past

[Lennie]

58 minutes ago, aties said:

Honestly i am really really scared right now.. i am waiting for their decisions.. Other people from other majors have seen rejection and rejection and they feel really sad about that i am horrendously terrfied

Hi @aties -- I can certainly understand the disappointment of not getting accepted if Oxford is the uni you have your heart set on.

As you say, though, many people get rejections. It is common to not get into your first choice uni, even if you are a top student. This doesn't mean it's a failing on your part, however. 

What would you say is it that's causing you to fear the idea of not being accepted?

[aties]

On 11/28/2024 at 1:33 AM, Lennie said:

Hi @aties -- I can certainly understand the disappointment of not getting accepted if Oxford is the uni you have your heart set on.

As you say, though, many people get rejections. It is common to not get into your first choice uni, even if you are a top student. This doesn't mean it's a failing on your part, however. 

What would you say is it that's causing you to fear the idea of not being accepted?

that i am not "good" and i will miss old vibe of oxford, miss their academic excellence and social activities

[Aurora]

On 12/1/2024 at 2:46 PM, aties said:

that i am not "good" and i will miss old vibe of oxford, miss their academic excellence and social activities

Do you know when you will find out whether you have been accepted or not?

Having to wait to find out can be really stressful. Have you got any calming techniques that might be helpful right now or anything that you can do to distract yourself and take your mind of things while you wait? 

[aties]

1 hour ago, Aurora said:

Do you know when you will find out whether you have been accepted or not?

Having to wait to find out can be really stressful. Have you got any calming techniques that might be helpful right now or anything that you can do to distract yourself and take your mind of things while you wait? 

Hi! They are sending result... I AM SO NERVOUS