Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 6 minutes ago, janiyah said: yeah i think i do Can you explain why? I know it’s because you think you’re ugly (you’re not) is there any other reasons why? Like anything in particular? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 6 minutes ago, janiyah said: yeah i think i do Hey I think you look great! (But it is against our guidelines to post pictures of ourselves as it is a safety issue for users, so the photo may be removed from your account.) But you deserve to be treated well and also not being told lies about your appearance! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 thank you i will remove the picture right away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 1 minute ago, janiyah said: thank you i will remove the picture right away Thanks I really appreciate it. With the way you're being treated at school, does anyone know about this? It sounds like a lot of what is going on is bullying which is not okay. You deserve much better at school! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 3 minutes ago, Catsup said: Thanks I really appreciate it. With the way you're being treated at school, does anyone know about this? It sounds like a lot of what is going on is bullying which is not okay. You deserve much better at school! no no one knows cause i'm so used to handling problems on my own but now its gotten so hard to deal with idk what to do 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 3 minutes ago, Catsup said: Thanks I really appreciate it. With the way you're being treated at school, does anyone know about this? It sounds like a lot of what is going on is bullying which is not okay. You deserve much better at school! I agree with @Catsup you definitely deserve better. Is it your friends treating you like this or just other people? And have you tried talking to a trusted adult about what’s happening with the bullying and everything? If not I recommend you try and talk to a trusted adult like one of your teachers or someone like that or a counselor. Whichever you prefer. Or your dad if you want to. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 1 minute ago, janiyah said: no no one knows cause i'm so used to handling problems on my own but now its gotten so hard to deal with idk what to do Like @Emmerson mentioned (great advice, by the way ), I think getting help for the bullying and bringing it up to an adult is really important. Is that something you would think of doing at this point? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 2 minutes ago, Emmerson said: I agree with @Catsup you definitely deserve better. Is it your friends treating you like this or just other people? And have you tried talking to a trusted adult about what’s happening with the bullying and everything? If not I recommend you try and talk to a trusted adult like one of your teachers or someone like that or a counselor. Whichever you prefer. Or your dad if you want to. well no its not my friends but i just have been wanting to give up on life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 4 minutes ago, janiyah said: well no its not my friends but i just have been wanting to give up on life I'm sorry to hear that and it's absolutely not your fault this is happening. I'm reaching out here with some crisis resources to have on hand if you ever feel unsafe: - (UK) The Samaritans - 116 123 (This is a free service that operates 24/7) - (USA) Suicide and Crisis Lifeline - 988 (This is a free service that operates 24/7. You can call or text) - A list of worldwide crisis lines can be found here: https://www.befrienders.org - There’s an app I can recommend called https://prevent-suicide.org.uk/find-help-now/stay-alive-app/ - it has safety plans to make sure you don’t harm yourself and you might find it helpful. - You can also call the police if you feel at risk. How are you doing with feeling safe right now? And does anything give you hope for the future? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 5 minutes ago, janiyah said: well no its not my friends but i just have been wanting to give up on life Like my therapist says and my mom says…try and think of the positive things in your life and block out the negative things…see if that helps or like I said before you could try journaling if you really wanted to… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 2 minutes ago, Catsup said: I'm sorry to hear that and it's absolutely not your fault this is happening. I'm reaching out here with some crisis resources to have on hand if you ever feel unsafe: - (UK) The Samaritans - 116 123 (This is a free service that operates 24/7) - (USA) Suicide and Crisis Lifeline - 988 (This is a free service that operates 24/7. You can call or text) - A list of worldwide crisis lines can be found here: https://www.befrienders.org - There’s an app I can recommend called https://prevent-suicide.org.uk/find-help-now/stay-alive-app/ - it has safety plans to make sure you don’t harm yourself and you might find it helpful. - You can also call the police if you feel at risk. How are you doing with feeling safe right now? And does anything give you hope for the future? thank you i will try some of the sights so wish me luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 Just now, janiyah said: thank you i will try some of the sights so wish me luck Okay and do feel free to keep us updated in Community or on Confidential Support when you can. We really care about your wellbeing, and I really hope and believe that things will be okay for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 1 minute ago, Catsup said: Okay and do feel free to keep us updated in Community or on Confidential Support when you can. We really care about your wellbeing, and I really hope and believe that things will be okay for you i don't have the Confidential Support thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 1 minute ago, janiyah said: i don't have the Confidential Support thing It should be on the top of the menu on the Ditch the Label forums page, near "blogs". I believe you should also get an email with a message. Does that make sense? And how are you doing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 1 minute ago, Catsup said: It should be on the top of the menu on the Ditch the Label forums page, near "blogs". I believe you should also get an email with a message. Does that make sense? And how are you doing? yeah im doing good but i c.u.t. today because of stress Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 I know this is totally off topic but if you go outside right now you can see different planets… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Catsup Posted March 28 Digital Mentor Share Posted March 28 2 minutes ago, janiyah said: yeah im doing good but i c.u.t. today because of stress I'm sorry to hear that. But I am glad you are doing okay right now. I will be logging off myself soon, but please do feel free to reply any time and also use the crisis resources if you need them at any point. We're here for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 Just now, Emmerson said: I know this is totally off topic but if you go outside right now you can see different planets… wow so pretty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebop and Bebe Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 Just now, Catsup said: I'm sorry to hear that. But I am glad you are doing okay right now. I will be logging off myself soon, but please do feel free to reply any time and also use the crisis resources if you need them at any point. We're here for you! ok thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 @janiyah if you need to I can still talk I’ll be up for a while I might not respond right away because I’m working on my hw but I can still respond…I’m here for you! We all are! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 @CoconutCultist @Equivalent Ways @-Lmnshrk- @sflowergirl @Huxley @La_Bonita_Chicahey how are all of you doing? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Strawberry Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 @Emmerson im doing good wbu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 Good rn… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Strawberry Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 i missed blc a lot today Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olivia05 Posted March 28 Author Share Posted March 28 Just now, La_Bonita_Chica said: i missed blc a lot today Aww I’m sorry my I missed the person I like bc we could barely talk today…/she kinda sucks (respectfully) at answering me… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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