understandablyuncertain Posted February 19 Share Posted February 19 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Sex Click this notice to reveal the content. So this whole site is new to me, bear with me. Let me know if I need to fix anything I’ll try to keep this short but, I am a cis woman married to a cis man. I’ve known I was bi since I was a kid, but I feel like I’m either wrong or things have changed. I love my husband (I’ll call him H) but I don’t find myself sexually attracted to him. I think he’s handsome but I don’t really get “excited” by him. However, I do get that way about women. I see beautiful women on social media and I will have feelings that don’t match what I have with H. (I don’t cheat, of course, nor do I seek out those posts.) I worry I might be lesbian and not bi. I’m not worried about how it will affect me, but rather how it would affect H. We both love each other but I’m not sure it’s in the same way. Either way I just don’t want to destroy his life or have him be devastated if that is who I am. There’s more to it but I have a few questions. how do I figure out my sexuality? how do I bring up the topic with H? is there a way to not hurt H if I am fully lesbian? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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