Cal_The_Oyster Posted January 1, 2023 Share Posted January 1, 2023 (edited) This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. I think I might be a system. A system is a group of identities sharing one body (or at least that's what I can gather) and I feel lik this is the case for me. I acknowledge that I may not be taken seriously as I'm 16 but it's something I need to Express at some point. I have clothes i dont remember having bought and am losing time more frequently than before. I am getting severely anxious lately and feel it may be a result of this whole thing. Does anyone else have any personal experiences that could help and is there something I should be doing? I cant seek medical help for reasons I cant really go into. (I have difficulty explaining my thoughts sometimes so i apologise) Edited January 1, 2023 by Cal_The_Oyster Trigger warning 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted January 1, 2023 Share Posted January 1, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. 8 hours ago, Cal_The_Oyster said: I think I might be a system. A system is a group of identities sharing one body (or at least that's what I can gather) and I feel lik this is the case for me. I acknowledge that I may not be taken seriously as I'm 16 but it's something I need to Express at some point. I have clothes i dont remember having bought and am losing time more frequently than before. I am getting severely anxious lately and feel it may be a result of this whole thing. Does anyone else have any personal experiences that could help and is there something I should be doing? I cant seek medical help for reasons I cant really go into. (I have difficulty explaining my thoughts sometimes so i apologise) The only advice I can offer is maybe try and communicate with your other members? Like, make a bright/noticeable poster, put it in a place in your room you can regularly see, and write down something for your alternates to see and check it every so often to see if there's a reply of some sort. I'm not a system though, so i don't really know, but I hope this helps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted January 1, 2023 Author Share Posted January 1, 2023 This post has been flagged with warnings, as follows: Other Click this notice to reveal the content. Just now, Emberfrost12 said: The only advice I can offer is maybe try and communicate with your other members? Like, make a bright/noticeable poster, put it in a place in your room you can regularly see, and write down something for your alternates to see and check it every so often to see if there's a reply of some sort. I'm not a system though, so i don't really know, but I hope this helps Yeah this is great! I hadnt thought of doing a poster so I'll try that! Thanks 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belleandsimba Posted January 2, 2023 Share Posted January 2, 2023 I have a board in my room that has a inspirational quote on it and it says "When you got a dream,grab it and never let it go." - Carol Burnett. And when u do have a dream follow it and it might show u the way to ur next step in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted January 4, 2023 Author Share Posted January 4, 2023 On 1/2/2023 at 11:36 AM, belleandsimba said: I have a board in my room that has a inspirational quote on it and it says "When you got a dream,grab it and never let it go." - Carol Burnett. And when u do have a dream follow it and it might show u the way to ur next step in life. Hey thanks for this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted January 4, 2023 Share Posted January 4, 2023 Hi, So I am a system too and somthing I try and do Is write alot on paper or draw out stuff. Some thing else I can do is I can talk to think and not by paper But I think it is Different for each system cause some people may just have one or two. I know someone who has 2 systems and someone who has 3. I have 4 but the others are both twins with each other. I think I have told you about Rosey and Rylan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted January 4, 2023 Share Posted January 4, 2023 sorry if its not much help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted January 9, 2023 Author Share Posted January 9, 2023 On 1/4/2023 at 5:57 PM, -Maddie- said: Hi, So I am a system too and somthing I try and do Is write alot on paper or draw out stuff. Some thing else I can do is I can talk to think and not by paper But I think it is Different for each system cause some people may just have one or two. I know someone who has 2 systems and someone who has 3. I have 4 but the others are both twins with each other. I think I have told you about Rosey and Rylan. Yeah weve been doing this (cal) Thanks @-Maddie- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 Your welcome - from all of us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted March 22, 2023 Author Share Posted March 22, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 12:57 PM, -Marra- said: Your welcome - from all of us HEYY AGAIN I REMEMBER THIS POST NOW! lol (Cal) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Aussie- Posted March 22, 2023 Share Posted March 22, 2023 Just now, Cal_The_Oyster said: HEYY AGAIN I REMEMBER THIS POST NOW! lol (Cal) Heyy I forgot about this post too Lol (Maddie) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KandCo Posted July 21, 2023 Share Posted July 21, 2023 Hi Im part of a system as well, Communication with alters helps however it can take a long time to build a good level of it so i have downloaded some apps in an attempt to make things a bit easier. These apps are Simply Plural, Mindly, Antar. I hope this might be able to help - K Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted July 27, 2023 Author Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/21/2023 at 4:50 PM, KandCo said: Hi Im part of a system as well, Communication with alters helps however it can take a long time to build a good level of it so i have downloaded some apps in an attempt to make things a bit easier. These apps are Simply Plural, Mindly, Antar. I hope this might be able to help - K Fair enough. I actually forgot all about this post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 I've taken to talking aloud with them, when we're away from other people. I find it helps. Also, turns out I can leave my left hand up for grabs so that they can write Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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