Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 I really wish I could get my hair the way I want. And my voice and everything. I recently got a load of neutral clothes with my sister and I can only get those at Christmas. In the mean time I Just wanna get Male compliments every so often. But that would sound selfish if I said it out loud so I tend not to. I try to tell myself that itll all be ok. That this is just a minor setback in my journey to becoming myself. But what I'd give to wake up in a Male body and not worry about my period and the constant feminine-natured compliments I get and the ridiculous amount of "you're not a boy just because (xyz)" I'm sick of it all but I'm still going strong in case it does turn out ok. Sorry if this is hard to read/understand. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 15 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: I really wish I could get my hair the way I want. And my voice and everything. I recently got a load of neutral clothes with my sister and I can only get those at Christmas. In the mean time I Just wanna get Male compliments every so often. But that would sound selfish if I said it out loud so I tend not to. I try to tell myself that itll all be ok. That this is just a minor setback in my journey to becoming myself. But what I'd give to wake up in a Male body and not worry about my period and the constant feminine-natured compliments I get and the ridiculous amount of "you're not a boy just because (xyz)" I'm sick of it all but I'm still going strong in case it does turn out ok. Sorry if this is hard to read/understand. Hey dude, everything is gonna happen some day, Its not selfish that ur wanting the preferred compliments for yourself either, but I get the whole wanting to wake up in a male body. Try to see ur own body in a new light, you could try different things to help make ur body look the way u want, for example ima start lifting weights so I don't look as feminine All ya gotta do is hope the days get better MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 29 minutes ago, _Kai_ said: Hey dude, everything is gonna happen some day, Its not selfish that ur wanting the preferred compliments for yourself either, but I get the whole wanting to wake up in a male body. Try to see ur own body in a new light, you could try different things to help make ur body look the way u want, for example ima start lifting weights so I don't look as feminine All ya gotta do is hope the days get better Yeah I I would go to the exersise thing but it's either Go in girls: dysphoria CENTRAL Go in guys: transphobes CENTRAL MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 13 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: Yeah I I would go to the exersise thing but it's either Go in girls: dysphoria CENTRAL Go in guys: transphobes CENTRAL Damn- Shitty transphobes I swear MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 1 hour ago, _Kai_ said: Damn- Shitty transphobes I swear Yup MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 I'm just tired of not feeling handsome or manly enough or just stuff like that. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 2 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: I'm just tired of not feeling handsome or manly enough or just stuff like that. Shit man, I get that Its tough but things will get better MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 2 minutes ago, Thisboiistrans said: I'm just tired of not feeling handsome or manly enough or just stuff like that. It's like I need daily reminders that I'm a dude but cant find them anyehere MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: Shit man, I get that Its tough but things will get better Thanks kai I sure hope so MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 Just now, Thisboiistrans said: Thanks kai I sure hope so Np, if ya ever wanna vent or just talk, u can quote me here or just talk wherever & tag me MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: Np, if ya ever wanna vent or just talk, u can quote me here or just talk wherever & tag me Thanks a million. Right now I feel like randomly asking ppl to affirm my identity because I cant even validate myself y'know? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kai_ Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 1 minute ago, Thisboiistrans said: Thanks a million. Right now I feel like randomly asking ppl to affirm my identity because I cant even validate myself y'know? Ooo, & np (srry I took forever to type TvT) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 20, 2022 Author Share Posted November 20, 2022 Just now, _Kai_ said: Ooo, & np (srry I took forever to type TvT) No prob MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted November 21, 2022 Share Posted November 21, 2022 8 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: Yeah I I would go to the exersise thing but it's either Go in girls: dysphoria CENTRAL Go in guys: transphobes CENTRAL I feel that MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hazard Posted November 21, 2022 Share Posted November 21, 2022 6 hours ago, Thisboiistrans said: It's like I need daily reminders that I'm a dude but cant find them anyehere YOU ARE A DUDE. A MAN. A SIR. A BLOKE. A GENTLEMAN. A BOY. A FELLOW. A CHAP :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 21, 2022 Author Share Posted November 21, 2022 3 hours ago, Emberfrost12 said: YOU ARE A DUDE. A MAN. A SIR. A BLOKE. A GENTLEMAN. A BOY. A FELLOW. A CHAP :) Thank you MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted November 21, 2022 Author Share Posted November 21, 2022 Another vent for the page. Tried explaining to my friends that I use he/they pronouns and was told I had to be a demi boy. Can I not just be trans without other people's labels? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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