Julian Ali Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 Please help by answering the poll, and let me know what i should do. You can also message me your opinion. All voters will be anonymous. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
svcker-pvnch Posted November 6, 2022 Share Posted November 6, 2022 i came out with a. really awkward and overly-defensive speech when i was around 14, and i don’t think that was the best plan (mainly cause i was defending myself when they didn’t even oppose me or anything LMAO-) i’d say try something casual like a movie night or dinner! it helps to have something else to focus on other than talking :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted November 6, 2022 Share Posted November 6, 2022 9 hours ago, svcker-pvnch said: i came out with a. really awkward and overly-defensive speech when i was around 14, and i don’t think that was the best plan (mainly cause i was defending myself when they didn’t even oppose me or anything LMAO-) i’d say try something casual like a movie night or dinner! it helps to have something else to focus on other than talking :) Happy for you 🥹 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julian Ali Posted November 7, 2022 Author Share Posted November 7, 2022 On 11/5/2022 at 8:59 PM, svcker-pvnch said: i came out with a. really awkward and overly-defensive speech when i was around 14, and i don’t think that was the best plan (mainly cause i was defending myself when they didn’t even oppose me or anything LMAO-) i’d say try something casual like a movie night or dinner! it helps to have something else to focus on other than talking :) Awsome, Thanks! 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julian Ali Posted November 7, 2022 Author Share Posted November 7, 2022 On 11/5/2022 at 8:59 PM, svcker-pvnch said: i came out with a. really awkward and overly-defensive speech when i was around 14, and i don’t think that was the best plan (mainly cause i was defending myself when they didn’t even oppose me or anything LMAO-) i’d say try something casual like a movie night or dinner! it helps to have something else to focus on other than talking :) Also a great idea because i have kinda homophobic parents and they would freak if i did a speech, and they would probably say something like "you're 13, you cant be trans, its a phase kid" 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pianodude115 Posted November 13, 2022 Share Posted November 13, 2022 Hey @Julian Ali, Sorry if I'm a little late to this, but I am also a trans man who has recently come out to my parents and the majority of my friends/school teachers etc. (Little backstory - I have been struggling with my identity for about 4 years now, I am chinese so my culture is pretty much anti LGBT.) Regardless, remember this - At the end of the day if it makes you happy - Finding happiness in yourself is really important. And don't let people tell you it's a phase, a lot of people might say that, but for us trans folks deep down, we know that it is a big part to get right - people will eventually turn around. My parents are coming round to it slowly - I'm sure yours will too. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted November 13, 2022 Share Posted November 13, 2022 @Pianodude115 such great advice!! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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