Digital Mentor Aurora Posted November 15, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted November 15, 2022 12 hours ago, Goldfish said: Things with my friend are okay, sometimes I really don’t know how to support him because even though we both understand each other, he finds comfort in different things than I do, and he’s very hot and cold some of the time. I try and he says he appreciates me but sometimes I feel like I don’t do enough for him. And yes, I’ve decided to take my mom up on the offer, but I haven’t actually told her I’ve decided that yet :/ Anyways, have a great day :))) Hi there, thank you for the update. If you feel comfortable to, let us know how things go, once your mum has spoken to your dad. I really hope it goes well. It sounds like you definitely have your mum's support so I can imagine that will also have a positive impact on how your dad reacts. With regards to your friend, it sounds to me like you're being a great friend to them. Some people can be very hot and cold and it's only natural that we then think it might have something to do with us. I have learnt that a lot of the time it's the way some people deal with their own emotions and it doesn't really matter what we say or do. In those situations it can be helpful to give the other person a bit of space and remind ourself that it's nothing to do with us. What do you think? I hope you have a great day, too :)) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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