Yurihead Posted October 8, 2022 Author Share Posted October 8, 2022 Nice to meet you too, most of my irl and online friends are cis apart from my one close irl friend who’s a trans man. Him and my other friend are the two people who know I’m gay (they’re both my irl friends). And all my online ones know I’m gay, it’s a lot easier to come out online MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted October 8, 2022 Share Posted October 8, 2022 24 minutes ago, Yurihead said: Nice to meet you too, most of my irl and online friends are cis apart from my one close irl friend who’s a trans man. Him and my other friend are the two people who know I’m gay (they’re both my irl friends). And all my online ones know I’m gay, it’s a lot easier to come out online I agree. You get so much support! Especially on here MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurihead Posted October 8, 2022 Author Share Posted October 8, 2022 And even if you don’t online it’s effortless to cut ties with people, it’s just a tap away. Irl if someone doesn’t agree with your orientation it’s a lot harder. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurihead Posted October 8, 2022 Author Share Posted October 8, 2022 *even if they don’t, online it’s effortless to (and then the rest) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted October 8, 2022 Share Posted October 8, 2022 6 minutes ago, Yurihead said: And even if you don’t online it’s effortless to cut ties with people, it’s just a tap away. Irl if someone doesn’t agree with your orientation it’s a lot harder. Yeah I agree youcant press block on irl ppl MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurihead Posted October 8, 2022 Author Share Posted October 8, 2022 Unfortunately.. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal_The_Oyster Posted October 8, 2022 Share Posted October 8, 2022 2 minutes ago, Yurihead said: Unfortunately.. I feel you girl. I've gotta go tho so cant wait to chat later MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurihead Posted October 8, 2022 Author Share Posted October 8, 2022 That’s completely fine, can’t wait to talk later :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted October 12, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 12, 2022 On 10/7/2022 at 4:07 PM, Yurihead said: That makes sense and it probably right, but identifying the problem is only the first stage of solving it. How is it that people feel comfortable in their sexuality? Hi @Yurihead, I know what you mean. What do you think about the advice you got from @Thisboiistrans and @Leilaaaa? When we've grown up, believing one thing and we then realise that we don't fit in with what everyone else around you seems to believe it often takes time to not only feel comfortable but to accept ourself for who we are! One of the things I would suggest is to come up with a sentence that you tell yourself everyday. It can be something like "I like women and I'm comfortable with who I am" or anything else that you think sounds right for you. It will probably feel uncomfortable at first but by doing this every day, it can help you develop a new belief and help you to accept yourself for who you are. What do you think? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 12, 2022 Share Posted October 12, 2022 14 minutes ago, Aurora said: Hi @Yurihead, I know what you mean. What do you think about the advice you got from @Thisboiistrans and @Leilaaaa? When we've grown up, believing one thing and we then realise that we don't fit in with what everyone else around you seems to believe it often takes time to not only feel comfortable but to accept ourself for who we are! One of the things I would suggest is to come up with a sentence that you tell yourself everyday. It can be something like "I like women and I'm comfortable with who I am" or anything else that you think sounds right for you. It will probably feel uncomfortable at first but by doing this every day, it can help you develop a new belief and help you to accept yourself for who you are. What do you think? :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurihead Posted October 12, 2022 Author Share Posted October 12, 2022 Thank you, I feel like this will work. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Aurora Posted October 13, 2022 Digital Mentor Share Posted October 13, 2022 19 hours ago, Yurihead said: Thank you, I feel like this will work. I hope it does! Another thing you might find helpful is reading other people's stories. RUComingOut has real life coming out stories and it might be helpful for you to read about other people's journeys and to hear about some of the feelings and worries they have experienced. And please know that we are here for you and this is a safe place for you to talk about anything that's on your mind! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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