-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 UGH MY POSTS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 what happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 I just said that sounds lovely and there needing to be approved haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 So annoying haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 If two messages randomly pop up that's the hidden ones lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 Yup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-Lvcid Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 18 minutes ago, Egg said: what happened? okay ,my advice to you is I know people may make it seem that coming out is so easy and sometimes it is if you have really supportive family/friends etc , but one thing that I can tell u Is that if your scared to come out to your parents trust me that they will love you regardless of what you identify as honestly they will , because they raised you , they brought you into this world,they introduced you into this world,they taught you things in this world , and they would except you for who you are , don't ever feel once in your life that being gay,bi,pan,trans queer, just YOURSELF is wrong because ITS NOT. you deserve to be happy and that's what matters. I know your friends expect you , and I get there are rude ignorant people in this world but YOU chose whether or not you want them to be in your path . it's normal to feel the way you feel it's totally normal because your still reacting and trying to figure out how everyone is going to react but that's not the way to courage you on coming out , it's going to scare u more and make u nervous more and not want to do it . but I can feel that your a strong person who can come out when ever your ready to your parents and they will expect you fully they will love you no matter what and I can promise you that , the big feeling and the feeling in your chest that weighs heavily on your chest it will be relief once you see that our family was going to expect you no matter what . you will feel happier because you completely out and can completely show who you really are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-Lvcid Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 Just now, lucid said: okay ,my advice to you is I know people may make it seem that coming out is so easy and sometimes it is if you have really supportive family/friends etc , but one thing that I can tell u Is that if your scared to come out to your parents trust me that they will love you regardless of what you identify as honestly they will , because they raised you , they brought you into this world,they introduced you into this world,they taught you things in this world , and they would except you for who you are , don't ever feel once in your life that being gay,bi,pan,trans queer, just YOURSELF is wrong because ITS NOT. you deserve to be happy and that's what matters. I know your friends expect you , and I get there are rude ignorant people in this world but YOU chose whether or not you want them to be in your path . it's normal to feel the way you feel it's totally normal because your still reacting and trying to figure out how everyone is going to react but that's not the way to courage you on coming out , it's going to scare u more and make u nervous more and not want to do it . but I can feel that your a strong person who can come out when ever your ready to your parents and they will expect you fully they will love you no matter what and I can promise you that , the big feeling and the feeling in your chest that weighs heavily on your chest it will be relief once you see that our family was going to expect you no matter what . you will feel happier because you completely out and can completely show who you really are. I hope my advice helps you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 25 minutes ago, Egg said: ok Hugs you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 17 minutes ago, lucid said: I hope my advice helps you. Thanks you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-Lvcid Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 1 minute ago, Egg said: Thanks you! ur very welcome. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-Lvcid Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 hiii Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 It shows up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 2, 2022 Author Share Posted October 2, 2022 but then it laggs and doesn't show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-Lvcid Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 4 hours ago, Leilaaaa said: Oof my post is hidden all I said was that it sounds therapeutic hiiiii bae Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Leila- Posted October 3, 2022 Share Posted October 3, 2022 11 hours ago, Anti-Lvcid said: hiiiii bae Hiii Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sincerely, Frog Posted October 4, 2022 Share Posted October 4, 2022 Egg, You got this! I'm rooting for you! Sincerely, Frog 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 5, 2022 Author Share Posted October 5, 2022 Thanks, Frog! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElenaMDo Posted October 6, 2022 Share Posted October 6, 2022 Hey Egg! Elena here. I'm fairly new to the conversation, hope it's all going great! I myself am, from what I've read, in a situation similar to yours, since lately I've been think about coming out to my very homophobic dad. The anxiety is honestly horrible, and I was wondering if there was something specific that helped you get through it. Again, hope you, your cat and your parrot are doing amazing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 6, 2022 Author Share Posted October 6, 2022 7 hours ago, ElenaMDo said: Hey Egg! Elena here. I'm fairly new to the conversation, hope it's all going great! I myself am, from what I've read, in a situation similar to yours, since lately I've been think about coming out to my very homophobic dad. The anxiety is honestly horrible, and I was wondering if there was something specific that helped you get through it. Again, hope you, your cat and your parrot are doing amazing! Thank you! Hope your doing well. Other than my pets something that helping me is knowing that once I'm out, I won't have to worry any more about being out. Something that helps me also is this really old lady who's basically a grandma. She's really christian, but also very inclusive. For some reason my head keeps replying her words "God didn't give us fear, we don't need fear." and then in my own voice "don't give into fear, but don't get too over confident. One day this will all be over. One day you will be happy." when ever I get scared and after about ten minutes of that I feel better, but it's kinda creepy because I hear it in my sleep, even when I'm having a totally unrelated dream, like an ASMR. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElenaMDo Posted October 7, 2022 Share Posted October 7, 2022 19 hours ago, Egg said: Thank you! Hope your doing well. Other than my pets something that helping me is knowing that once I'm out, I won't have to worry any more about being out. Something that helps me also is this really old lady who's basically a grandma. She's really christian, but also very inclusive. For some reason my head keeps replying her words "God didn't give us fear, we don't need fear." and then in my own voice "don't give into fear, but don't get too over confident. One day this will all be over. One day you will be happy." when ever I get scared and after about ten minutes of that I feel better, but it's kinda creepy because I hear it in my sleep, even when I'm having a totally unrelated dream, like an ASMR. I feel you there. The relief once you've done it must be amazing. I mean, I have, but not to my family, just my mom and my friends, and it felt quite liberating. I hope you can get to that point one day. You will be happy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 7, 2022 Author Share Posted October 7, 2022 Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egg Posted October 11, 2022 Author Share Posted October 11, 2022 I have 6 days left, correction, 5. It's 12:21 AM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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