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5 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

Yes that's alright. I listened to music and had a bath tonight which I think I'm feeling better now. They won't be able to reschedule since we have to be there and it's the only session we can see and ask questions to our tutor without anyone else in the room.ย 

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I'm glad to hear that you took some time for self-care and that it helped you feel a bit better. Music and a soothing bath can do wonders for calming the mind. I understand that the meeting is important, and it's a unique opportunity to have one-on-one time with your tutor. It's completely okay to have some anxiety about it, but please remember that you've already taken a step toward feeling better by practicing self-care.

As you prepare for the meeting, take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you can handle it. You've already shown resilience by reaching out and taking care of your well-being. If you have any questions or concerns, don't hesitate to ask your tutor. They are there to support you and help you succeed in sixth form.

Look forward to hearing how it goes for you.ย 

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1 minute ago, Luie said:

I'm glad to hear that you took some time for self-care and that it helped you feel a bit better. Music and a soothing bath can do wonders for calming the mind. I understand that the meeting is important, and it's a unique opportunity to have one-on-one time with your tutor. It's completely okay to have some anxiety about it, but please remember that you've already taken a step toward feeling better by practicing self-care.

As you prepare for the meeting, take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you can handle it. You've already shown resilience by reaching out and taking care of your well-being. If you have any questions or concerns, don't hesitate to ask your tutor. They are there to support you and help you succeed in sixth form.

Look forward to hearing how it goes for you.ย 

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Thank will be telling them tomorrow after the meeting.ย 

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9 hours ago, Treacle 246 said:

Thank will be telling them tomorrow after the meeting.ย 

Good morning @Treacle 246, I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner but I wasn't online yesterday. I'm really proud of you for cutting ties with your friend ๐Ÿ’ช!! I can imagine that it wasn't easy to do, especially as she keeps putting emotional pressure on you but you are putting yourself and your own emotional wellbeing first and that is so important. It sounds like you're really determined not to get involved again even when she keeps trying to contact you. Stay strong and I am sure she will get the message soon and will stop contacting you. As @Duckieย said, we can also support you with this if you need any help blocking her account.ย It sounds to me like she could really do with some support (maybe from a counsellor) around managing her feelings and seeing things from other people's perspective.ย 

Thank you for sharing your worries around meeting your tutor today. I can see that @Luieย has already given you lots of advice. You might also find it helpful to remind yourself that you felt really nervous before you met your counsellor for the first time but you got through it and now you enjoy seeing them. I hope it goes really well today. You can do this!

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3 minutes ago, Aurora said:

Good morning @Treacle 246, I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner but I wasn't online yesterday. I'm really proud of you for cutting ties with your friend ๐Ÿ’ช!! I can imagine that it wasn't easy to do, especially as she keeps putting emotional pressure on you but you are putting yourself and your own emotional wellbeing first and that is so important. It sounds like you're really determined not to get involved again even when she keeps trying to contact you. Stay strong and I am sure she will get the message soon and will stop contacting you. As @Duckieย said, we can also support you with this if you need any help blocking her account.ย It sounds to me like she could really do with some support (maybe from a counsellor) around managing her feelings and seeing things from other people's perspective.ย 

Thank you for sharing your worries around meeting your tutor today. I can see that @Luieย has already given you lots of advice. You might also find it helpful to remind yourself that you felt really nervous before you met your counsellor for the first time but you got through it and now you enjoy seeing them. I hope it goes really well today. You can do this!

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Morning Aurora, it's alright. Thank you I'm feeling so much better about it. It wasn't easy but I had help from my school nurse. Thank tou well she hasn't messaged me yet. Yeah I don't want to be with her as her friend. She does have counsellor. It's alright right I'm feeling alright and not anxious. True but I've met my tutor before she was my pe teacher in year 9. So I've already met her but it's just going back to school for just 15 minutes then tomorrow is back at school.

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24 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

Morning Aurora, it's alright. Thank you I'm feeling so much better about it. It wasn't easy but I had help from my school nurse. Thank tou well she hasn't messaged me yet. Yeah I don't want to be with her as her friend. She does have counsellor. It's alright right I'm feeling alright and not anxious. True but I've met my tutor before she was my pe teacher in year 9. So I've already met her but it's just going back to school for just 15 minutes then tomorrow is back at school.

Ah Ok, thank you for explaining it all a bit more. It sounds like you are feeling a bit better about meeting your tutor today. Is that right? It's good that you know her already. How did you get on with her when she was your PE teacher? Is there anything in particular that is worrying you about meeting her?ย 

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I hope your meeting with her goes really well

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10 minutes ago, Aurora said:

Ah Ok, thank you for explaining it all a bit more. It sounds like you are feeling a bit better about meeting your tutor today. Is that right? It's good that you know her already. How did you get on with her when she was your PE teacher? Is there anything in particular that is worrying you about meeting her?ย 

Yes, that is right. Yes it is good that I already know her. Yeah she liked me when I was in her pe class. No not really it's not about the teacher it's just that we will see every teacher at school there.ย 

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30 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

Yes, that is right. Yes it is good that I already know her. Yeah she liked me when I was in her pe class. No not really it's not about the teacher it's just that we will see every teacher at school there.ย 

Oh OK, I understand. How are you feeling about going now? Are you planning on meeting your friends there?ย 

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1 minute ago, Aurora said:

Oh OK, I understand. How are you feeling about going now? Are you planning on meeting your friends there?ย 

We have to bring our parents. So I'm bringing my mum. Which is making me feel better. I'm not getting good sleep either.ย 

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31 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

We have to bring our parents. So I'm bringing my mum. Which is making me feel better. I'm not getting good sleep either.ย 

That's nice. I'm glad she can be there with you. I hope it goes really well today. Remember: you've got thisย ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ˜ƒ

I'm afraid I will have to log off very soon but I will be back online tomorrow. If you like you can tell me a bit more what's been going on with your sleep and if there is anything you have tried already to help you sleep? Then we can talk about it some more tomorrow if that's OK with you.ย ย 

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1 minute ago, Aurora said:

That's nice. I'm glad she can be there with you. I hope it goes really well today. Remember: you've got thisย ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ˜ƒ

I'm afraid I will have to log off very soon but I will be back online tomorrow. If you like you can tell me a bit more what's been going on with your sleep and if there is anything you have tried already to help you sleep? Then we can talk about it some more tomorrow if that's OK with you.ย ย 

Thank you. That's alright. Yes I think I would like to talk to you more about my sleep. Thank youย 

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On 9/7/2023 at 9:49 AM, Treacle 246 said:

Thank you. That's alright. Yes I think I would like to talk to you more about my sleep. Thank youย 

Sure, no problem. Would you like to tell me a bit more about what's been going on. For example do you have problems falling asleep or is it that you keep waking up? And is it that you're thinking about stuff or do you think it's the heat that is keeping you awake? Is there anything you've tried already to help you sleep?ย 

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6 hours ago, Aurora said:

Sure, no problem. Would you like to tell me a bit more about what's been going on. For example do you have problems falling asleep or is it that you keep waking up? And is it that you're thinking about stuff or do you think it's the heat that is keeping you awake? Is there anything you've tried already to help you sleep?ย 

Hi Aurora,

I did see this but I it was a very busy day on my first day at sixthform which was really good. I had no anxiety attacks, panic attacks which was good. My old head of year came to see me after school to check up on everything and she reassured me that everything was going to be ok. She also said this is my sixth year being back and this is the year I didn't have any panic attacks or anxiety attacks like I have done throughout year 7-11. I think it's the heat anxiety and just not being able to fall asleep. Which is quite frequent when it's near the start of a new year for school or when coming back to school after half term or holidays.ย 

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On 9/8/2023 at 8:15 PM, Treacle 246 said:

Hi Aurora,

I did see this but I it was a very busy day on my first day at sixthform which was really good. I had no anxiety attacks, panic attacks which was good. My old head of year came to see me after school to check up on everything and she reassured me that everything was going to be ok. She also said this is my sixth year being back and this is the year I didn't have any panic attacks or anxiety attacks like I have done throughout year 7-11. I think it's the heat anxiety and just not being able to fall asleep. Which is quite frequent when it's near the start of a new year for school or when coming back to school after half term or holidays.ย 

Hi @Treacle 246,

How are you doing? It sounds like you have a really good support system at school. It's so nice that the head of year came to talk to you about how you're feeling. That's excellent. Have you seen your tutor yet?ย 

Omg tell me about it... the heat gives me nightmares. I am so pleased the temperature is going to drop soon, because I am boiling!ย 

Also, have you heard anything from the girl or her friend? Have you managed to make social media private so that they won't bother you?

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5 minutes ago, Duckie said:

Hi @Treacle 246,

How are you doing? It sounds like you have a really good support system at school. It's so nice that the head of year came to talk to you about how you're feeling. That's excellent. Have you seen your tutor yet?ย 

Omg tell me about it... the heat gives me nightmares. I am so pleased the temperature is going to drop soon, because I am boiling!ย 

Also, have you heard anything from the girl or her friend? Have you managed to make social media private so that they won't bother you?

Hi Aurora,ย 

I'm doing alright I'm not at sixthform today due to my foot being broken.. yeah it is nice that she came to check up on me. Yep I have met my first tutor but not my second one. I hate this I'm so glad it's cooling down. No I haven't heard from any of them I managed to put my social media private.ย 

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5 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

Hi Aurora,ย 

I'm doing alright I'm not at sixthform today due to my foot being broken.. yeah it is nice that she came to check up on me. Yep I have met my first tutor but not my second one. I hate this I'm so glad it's cooling down. No I haven't heard from any of them I managed to put my social media private.ย 

Hi there :)

Oh dear, what happened to your foot? Are you OK? Do you know how long it will take to heal?

I can't wait for autumn! I could do with a good rain. I feel super spoilt for saying so, but I'm Scandinavian, so I literally can't deal with heat! xD I went to France two weeks ago and I literally got a heat rash as I stepped off the plane. I am not built for heat in the slightest xD

I am really relieved to hear that no one is bothering you on social media anymore. That is such a relief. How do you feel about it now that some times has passed?

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10 hours ago, Duckie said:

Hi there :)

Oh dear, what happened to your foot? Are you OK? Do you know how long it will take to heal?

I can't wait for autumn! I could do with a good rain. I feel super spoilt for saying so, but I'm Scandinavian, so I literally can't deal with heat! xD I went to France two weeks ago and I literally got a heat rash as I stepped off the plane. I am not built for heat in the slightest xD

I am really relieved to hear that no one is bothering you on social media anymore. That is such a relief. How do you feel about it now that some times has passed?

I stubbed my toe yesterday and it was so painful. Should last about a week. Yeah I'm ok. Well it raining tomorrow I think. Ouch that sounds painful. Yeah I'm relieved aswell. I feel a lot better but there's something else going on in my life again but I'm talking to welfare tomorrow about it.ย 

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4 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

I stubbed my toe yesterday and it was so painful. Should last about a week. Yeah I'm ok. Well it raining tomorrow I think. Ouch that sounds painful. Yeah I'm relieved aswell. I feel a lot better but there's something else going on in my life again but I'm talking to welfare tomorrow about it.ย 

Sorry to hear that. Have you had your toe properly checked out? Just want to make sure it's not broken or anything.

Would you like to talk about this? We are also available on Confidential Support if you would prefer to talk about it in private. It's at the top if this page, towards the middle (just under the search field). No pressure.

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8 minutes ago, Duckie said:

Sorry to hear that. Have you had your toe properly checked out? Just want to make sure it's not broken or anything.

Would you like to talk about this? We are also available on Confidential Support if you would prefer to talk about it in private. It's at the top if this page, towards the middle (just under the search field). No pressure.

Yeah went to A&E but it's not broken it's just bruised. Yeah I know I've tried the confidential support but it won't let me reply so I think it's best to stay here. My sister is on my mind because it's been nearly 6 years since everything had kicked off and it's making me feel down.ย 

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Just now, Treacle 246 said:

Yeah went to A&E but it's not broken it's just bruised. Yeah I know I've tried the confidential support but it won't let me reply so I think it's best to stay here. My sister is on my mind because it's been nearly 6 years since everything had kicked off and it's making me feel down.ย 

That's really good that it's not broken. Well done for going to A&E with it. It's always better to know for sure.

Would you feel comfortable to talk to me about your sister?

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3 minutes ago, Duckie said:

That's really good that it's not broken. Well done for going to A&E with it. It's always better to know for sure.

Would you feel comfortable to talk to me about your sister?

Yeah it is really good. Yeah it is. Yeah I would it's alot of informationย 

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2 minutes ago, Treacle 246 said:

Yeah it is really good. Yeah it is. Yeah I would it's alot of informationย 

Tell me what you feel comfortable to tell me. I am happy to listen :)

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20 hours ago, Duckie said:

Tell me what you feel comfortable to tell me. I am happy to listen :)

Will it be ok to tell you later on if that's ok

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2 hours ago, Treacle 246 said:

Will it be ok to tell you later on if that's ok

Of course. Whenever you're ready :)

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Hi @Treacle 246, I just wanted to check in with you and see how you are doing? How is your foot? I hope it's much better.ย 

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