neekob2222 Posted June 16, 2022 Share Posted June 16, 2022 so i´m scared because I have a bunch of kids that are in my school and they all know me cause of my older brother and if i came out to them i know that i am going to get clowned and made fun of and i also have a crush on my day 1 best friend cause me and him been friends since day 1 he´s my for lifer and i have a crush on him and im scared to come out and tell him because i don´t know how he is going to react. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 17, 2022 Share Posted June 17, 2022 Hey Welcome to the DTL community. I'm one of the digital mentors here and I give advice to those who reach out to us :) So, there are two aspects to this: coming out generally and then also telling your best friend how you feel. I'm wondering, can you tell me more about why you feel you would be made fun of if you came out? Also, I'm wondering, how do you think your best friend feels about you in terms of potentially having a crush? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neekob2222 Posted June 17, 2022 Author Share Posted June 17, 2022 i would be made fun of if i came out cause i have a lot of straught friends in my school and ik that i will be made fun of. And i never came out to my friend as having a crush on him or being bi. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 18, 2022 Share Posted June 18, 2022 13 hours ago, neekob2222 said: i would be made fun of if i came out cause i have a lot of straught friends in my school and ik that i will be made fun of. And i never came out to my friend as having a crush on him or being bi. Hey there, Ah, okay. I think that can be a pretty common experience for people when they come out; what would it be like for you to come out and go through that? Do you think it would be good in the long run for you to be out, or would you rather wait? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neekob2222 Posted June 20, 2022 Author Share Posted June 20, 2022 I mean i wouldn´t really care but i don´t wanna lose most of my friends. and yeah i think it would be good to come out . MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 hour ago, neekob2222 said: I mean i wouldn´t really care but i don´t wanna lose most of my friends. and yeah i think it would be good to come out . Hey, Yeah, it's completely normal to be worried about losing friends when you come out, but my perspective is that if they don't want to be your friend once you come out, then it might be time for some new friends anyway, ones who accept and respect you for who you are :) What do you think? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neekob2222 Posted June 20, 2022 Author Share Posted June 20, 2022 yeah i think so to and thank you for everything . 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted June 21, 2022 Share Posted June 21, 2022 No worries :) Would you like any more support? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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