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Should I come out to my freinds as gay?


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Hey, do you think that they'd react well to you coming out to them? You could try making a comment at first about something that has to do with the lgbtq+ community and go from there.

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13 hours ago, Summer13087 said:

So my girl group we have all made a pro.ise to never keep secrets from eachother but I am now questioning whether to tell them I'm gay or just keep quiet not to ruin things

Hey there, I'm Blondie, one of the support mentors.

Can I ask how you think telling them might ruin things?

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On 5/31/2022 at 2:35 AM, Emberfrost12 said:

Hey, do you think that they'd react well to you coming out to them? You could try making a comment at first about something that has to do with the lgbtq+ community and go from there.

Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint?

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12 minutes ago, Summer13087 said:

Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint?

If they don't get the hint, could you raise a point around a situation like "I overheard someone being homophobic and was shocked"Β and see what their reactions are?

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4 hours ago, Summer13087 said:

Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint?

If they don't get the hint, maybe say that you saw a gay/queer couple and were wondering if it was a normal thing. If they seem okay with it, you can try to come out. If they seem really negative about it, I'd advise to hold on a little longer and see if something changes

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9 hours ago, Blondie said:

If they don't get the hint, could you raise a point around a situation like "I overheard someone being homophobic and was shocked"Β and see what their reactions are?

Ok will tryΒ 

Talk in about two hours mabye I'm going out with them tonight as a johnny depp trialΒ  night

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The trial is a great subject to bring up because Amber is queer and is currently in a relationship with a woman. She even had this incident where she accused a cop on being homophobic to her, but it turns out the cop she accused was a lesbian, so she was lying. Maybe mention that and see how they feel about it.

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On 6/10/2022 at 4:36 PM, Summer13087 said:

I did and my friends where like she obviously is lying and that Johnny was right o win what does that mean?

Hey there,

What did they say she was lying about? Her relationship/queer status or the allegations against Johnny Depp?Β 

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2 hours ago, Summer13087 said:

Can I get some private help?

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Sure. If you scroll to the top of the page, click the confidential support tab and send us a message there. Speak soon.Β 

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