Summer13087 Posted May 30 Share Posted May 30 So my girl group we have all made a pro.ise to never keep secrets from eachother but I am now questioning whether to tell them I'm gay or just keep quiet not to ruin things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted May 31 Share Posted May 31 Hey, do you think that they'd react well to you coming out to them? You could try making a comment at first about something that has to do with the lgbtq+ community and go from there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Blondie Posted May 31 Digital Mentor Share Posted May 31 13 hours ago, Summer13087 said: So my girl group we have all made a pro.ise to never keep secrets from eachother but I am now questioning whether to tell them I'm gay or just keep quiet not to ruin things Hey there, I'm Blondie, one of the support mentors. Can I ask how you think telling them might ruin things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 It's just I don't know if they would react to it well and I am just scared and anxious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 On 5/31/2022 at 2:35 AM, Emberfrost12 said: Hey, do you think that they'd react well to you coming out to them? You could try making a comment at first about something that has to do with the lgbtq+ community and go from there. Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Blondie Posted June 1 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 1 12 minutes ago, Summer13087 said: Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint? If they don't get the hint, could you raise a point around a situation like "I overheard someone being homophobic and was shocked" and see what their reactions are? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 4 hours ago, Summer13087 said: Ok what should I do from there if they don't get the hint? If they don't get the hint, maybe say that you saw a gay/queer couple and were wondering if it was a normal thing. If they seem okay with it, you can try to come out. If they seem really negative about it, I'd advise to hold on a little longer and see if something changes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 Ok I will try Talk to you in 24 hours Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 9 hours ago, Blondie said: If they don't get the hint, could you raise a point around a situation like "I overheard someone being homophobic and was shocked" and see what their reactions are? Ok will try Talk in about two hours mabye I'm going out with them tonight as a johnny depp trial night 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambi Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 The trial is a great subject to bring up because Amber is queer and is currently in a relationship with a woman. She even had this incident where she accused a cop on being homophobic to her, but it turns out the cop she accused was a lesbian, so she was lying. Maybe mention that and see how they feel about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted June 10 Author Share Posted June 10 I did and my friends where like she obviously is lying and that Johnny was right o win what does that mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted June 12 Digital Mentor Share Posted June 12 On 6/10/2022 at 4:36 PM, Summer13087 said: I did and my friends where like she obviously is lying and that Johnny was right o win what does that mean? Hey there, What did they say she was lying about? Her relationship/queer status or the allegations against Johnny Depp? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted Friday at 12:36 PM Author Share Posted Friday at 12:36 PM She said she was lying about being queer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted Friday at 12:37 PM Author Share Posted Friday at 12:37 PM Is this good? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted 19 hours ago Digital Mentor Share Posted 19 hours ago 21 hours ago, Summer13087 said: She said she was lying about being queer Hey, That's interesting. I wonder what she would get out of lying about being queer? Did they talk about that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted 8 hours ago Author Share Posted 8 hours ago She said she was only trying to be queer to try snd get support from the lgbtq+ community and idk if I should ask my other girl friends this idea and see how they would respond if I came out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer13087 Posted 8 hours ago Author Share Posted 8 hours ago Can I get some private help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digital Mentor Monsoon Posted 6 hours ago Digital Mentor Share Posted 6 hours ago 2 hours ago, Summer13087 said: Can I get some private help? Hey, Sure. If you scroll to the top of the page, click the confidential support tab and send us a message there. Speak soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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