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hii! i'm a girl and i've always thought i was straight up until now but recently i think i've been developing feelings for this one girl. we only recently got to work with each other in various events and activities and i've slowly realized the feelings i have towards her right now are feelings i would typically get for any guy crush. to be honest i'm not even sure what i'm feeling right now or if i simply like her as a person, but she's such a wonderful person and i really enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to her texts and worry if she seems tired or stressed or upset and feel a hint of jealousy (?) if she seems really close to other people. i honestly don't even know how to label it right now and i'm really confused. 

could it just be a passing thing or is it a start to a new realization? how do i even label what i'm feeling right now? and what should i do to get closer to her?

does anyone have similar experiences and how they dealt with it? thank you!

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1 hour ago, emlypark said:

hii! i'm a girl and i've always thought i was straight up until now but recently i think i've been developing feelings for this one girl. we only recently got to work with each other in various events and activities and i've slowly realized the feelings i have towards her right now are feelings i would typically get for any guy crush. to be honest i'm not even sure what i'm feeling right now or if i simply like her as a person, but she's such a wonderful person and i really enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to her texts and worry if she seems tired or stressed or upset and feel a hint of jealousy (?) if she seems really close to other people. i honestly don't even know how to label it right now and i'm really confused. 

could it just be a passing thing or is it a start to a new realization? how do i even label what i'm feeling right now? and what should i do to get closer to her?

does anyone have similar experiences and how they dealt with it? thank you!

Hey @emlypark Welcome to the community 😊

I am Daisie a Community Warden, I wondered if you feel it’s beneficial to have a chat with one of our Trained Mentors? I will tag them in so you know who they are and so they can reach out to you for some support and advice. @Monsoon & @Blondie 

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On 4/16/2022 at 6:05 AM, emlypark said:

hii! i'm a girl and i've always thought i was straight up until now but recently i think i've been developing feelings for this one girl. we only recently got to work with each other in various events and activities and i've slowly realized the feelings i have towards her right now are feelings i would typically get for any guy crush. to be honest i'm not even sure what i'm feeling right now or if i simply like her as a person, but she's such a wonderful person and i really enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to her texts and worry if she seems tired or stressed or upset and feel a hint of jealousy (?) if she seems really close to other people. i honestly don't even know how to label it right now and i'm really confused. 

could it just be a passing thing or is it a start to a new realization? how do i even label what i'm feeling right now? and what should i do to get closer to her?

does anyone have similar experiences and how they dealt with it? thank you!

Hey @emlypark

It's so lovely to hear about how you're enjoying spending time with her and it sounds like you're building a good connection with her. I think it's tricky to know if this is just a passing thing or part of a new realisation, and I think the only way to know is to explore it more if you can. What do you think?

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On 4/16/2022 at 6:05 AM, emlypark said:

hii! i'm a girl and i've always thought i was straight up until now but recently i think i've been developing feelings for this one girl. we only recently got to work with each other in various events and activities and i've slowly realized the feelings i have towards her right now are feelings i would typically get for any guy crush. to be honest i'm not even sure what i'm feeling right now or if i simply like her as a person, but she's such a wonderful person and i really enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to her texts and worry if she seems tired or stressed or upset and feel a hint of jealousy (?) if she seems really close to other people. i honestly don't even know how to label it right now and i'm really confused. 

could it just be a passing thing or is it a start to a new realization? how do i even label what i'm feeling right now? and what should i do to get closer to her?

does anyone have similar experiences and how they dealt with it? thank you!

Hey! I guess I have a kinda similar experience as you. I always just presumed I was straight. I had plenty of crushes on guys before. But around this time last year I met this girl and when I started to get to know her I realised I had feelings for her. I don’t know what it was like for you when you first realised that you might have feelings other than friendship for this girl, or if you knew straight away or not, but surprisingly for me it honestly just hit me on the spot like “woah I have a crush on this girl”. I definitely cried for a while, cuz how could I be gay? It’s been a whole year and I’ve only had a proper crush on one girl. I haven’t liked a guy since either, so I don’t know if I’m a lesbian or if I’m bisexual. But based off my experience, it sounds like your feelings for this girl are not just a passing thing. I totally understand what you’re saying! It can be so confusing. I hope this was somewhat helpful :)

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