-Penny Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 (edited) Hi, I am 13 and am still unsure about my sexuality. Ever since last year I have started thinking about my sexuality more. I have many friends who are LGBTQIA+, and I have started to think about how I would feel if I did like girls? (I am a girl myself.) I have started to think that I wouldn’t mind dating or being with a girl, but am still unsure if that is just me being friendly? Sorry for the long message, but can anyone give me some advice? Thanks so much <3 Edited March 18, 2022 by Piper Swift Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditch the Label Staff Daisie Posted March 18, 2022 Ditch the Label Staff Share Posted March 18, 2022 Hey Piper! Welcome to the community, hope you’re well. I am Daisie a community warden here on the forums, I read you are reaching out for some advice, so I have tagged our trained mentors in so they can reach out to you. @Monsoon & @Blondie. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 19, 2022 Share Posted March 19, 2022 11 hours ago, Piper Swift said: Hi, I am 13 and am still unsure about my sexuality. Ever since last year I have started thinking about my sexuality more. I have many friends who are LGBTQIA+, and I have started to think about how I would feel if I did like girls? (I am a girl myself.) I have started to think that I wouldn’t mind dating or being with a girl, but am still unsure if that is just me being friendly? Sorry for the long message, but can anyone give me some advice? Thanks so much <3 Hey there, Thanks for sharing :) I think these thoughts are more than just being friendly, and it sounds like your mind is giving you messages telling you to explore your sexuality. What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Penny Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/19/2022 at 10:09 AM, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thanks for sharing :) I think these thoughts are more than just being friendly, and it sounds like your mind is giving you messages telling you to explore your sexuality. What do you think? Hello @Monsoon, Many of my friends have suggested that I am bi-curious, but I haven’t asked my parents about it yet. I’m just unsure if my feelings are real or if it is just me fantasising some romantic story for myself. Honestly I’m just so confused about my identity right now and have been trying not to think too much about it. (Btw thanks for replying on my other post, I know that they are about the same thing but I’m just really unsure right now) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 18 hours ago, Piper Swift said: Hello @Monsoon, Many of my friends have suggested that I am bi-curious, but I haven’t asked my parents about it yet. I’m just unsure if my feelings are real or if it is just me fantasising some romantic story for myself. Honestly I’m just so confused about my identity right now and have been trying not to think too much about it. (Btw thanks for replying on my other post, I know that they are about the same thing but I’m just really unsure right now) Hey, I'll just continue to reply here to make it easier to keep track of :) How do you think it will go when you ask your parents about it? Also, just remember, you won't always feel like this, and with time, it will become clearer; I guess you just have to be patient and trust the process really, because it really will work out in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Penny Posted March 21, 2022 Author Share Posted March 21, 2022 52 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey, I'll just continue to reply here to make it easier to keep track of :) How do you think it will go when you ask your parents about it? Also, just remember, you won't always feel like this, and with time, it will become clearer; I guess you just have to be patient and trust the process really, because it really will work out in the end. Hi, I think I’ll wait until my feelings are a bit clearer before asking my parents about it, but I am pretty sure that they would be okay with it. I think you’re right though, I guess I’m just going to have to wait and see…but I feel much more secure now :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 5:40 PM, Piper Swift said: Hi, I think I’ll wait until my feelings are a bit clearer before asking my parents about it, but I am pretty sure that they would be okay with it. I think you’re right though, I guess I’m just going to have to wait and see…but I feel much more secure now :) Hey, I'm glad you're feeling much more secure now. Would you like more support with this or anything else? Just let me know :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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