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I think I might have a crush on one of my close friends


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I’ve been friends with this girl since the beginning of the school year and we’ve gotten pretty close (hugs whenever we see each other, holding hands randomly, and sometimes cuddling. I only do these things with my closest friends). Ever since I came out to her she’s been less close (i guess, we still do all of the things I listed before, but she’s a little more distant, but not that much it would make a big difference). Even when I thought I was straight I had felt closer to her for some reason, but when I realized that I was bi it started to make more sense. Even though I think I might have a crush on her I can’t seem to come to terms with it and I just push it out of my mind. I always just tell myself that I feel a friendly affection towards her but I’m not sure. What should I do?

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Hey there,

Welcome :)

I'm wondering, are you looking for advice about potentially having a crush on her, or more for the change you've sensed in your friendship since you came out to her? 

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Mostly on having a crush on her

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15 hours ago, Izzy13 said:

Mostly on having a crush on her

Hey,

Thanks for getting back to me so quickly :)

I'm wondering, because it seems like she's been pulling away recently, what do you think is going on for her at the moment? What could she be thinking and feeling?

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I don't really know why she's being like this because sometimes she's un a huggy mood and then other times she doesn't act how we normally do. Today, when we were in class, she told me I looked really pretty (which is something she doesn't say to anyone) so I told her that she looked good too, but her comment really caught me off guard. So basically she's been giving really mixed signals lately.

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Hey,

Yeah, it sounds pretty confusing, but she might have something going on which is making her seem up and down. Could it be worth reaching out to her and asking if everything is okay?

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