Emberfrost12 Posted October 27, 2021 Share Posted October 27, 2021 So, it seems like all my life I've been a third wheel, always an extra in friendships. I don't even remember having a friend group that wasn't a threesome. I want to become more than a third wheel, but how? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 27, 2021 Share Posted October 27, 2021 Hey there, Thank you for coming to us about this. I'm wondering, thinking about your past experiences of friendships, what has happened to make you feel like you were extra? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted October 27, 2021 Author Share Posted October 27, 2021 5 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Thank you for coming to us about this. I'm wondering, thinking about your past experiences of friendships, what has happened to make you feel like you were extra? usually i've kind of edged my way into friendships that were already there, and if i was doing something else it was like they didnt care or notice MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 28, 2021 Share Posted October 28, 2021 Hey there, It's interesting that you describe yourself as edging in. I'm wondering, can you tell me a little bit more about how they treat you, and what the good things are about those friendships? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emberfrost12 Posted October 28, 2021 Author Share Posted October 28, 2021 They treat me fine, but they dont treat me as though im really part of the group. The benifits are that im not expected to always do the same thing, and that i dont have to involve myself to much in their conversations MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Hey there, Ah, okay. Thanks for telling me about the benefits as well. What do you think your next step might be then? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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